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Work for it.

Well I was opportune to travel to a certain city for a team capacity building and the travelling was fine, but my task was with the media committee..

Well pre the training we had to set some stationeries to be used inside the training, example the training banner, notepads, name tags and even the layout for some templates for the training.

Then the issue of coverage and photo and memories keeping we needed a camera. Well the process was at first easy since I and the team were to move to a different region it would have been logical to go get a camera from the place we were going..

Well that wasn’t the best idea well the best move was us moving with our tools but we didn’t and that was fine at first . 

They say if you fail to prepare you prepare to fail, and that’s what happened, see we thought that it would be easy to get equipments just because once we had a project in that region and we were able to acquire equipments, little did we know that time is a varying factor ..

We failed to acquire equipments not because we didn’t have money to rent it but just because we didn’t have the right people to sign off as collateral for us to get it..

We even tried putting our items on bond but it didn’t  work out.. THAT’S A WORLD LESSON RIGHT HERE.

See its not what you have,it’s what people have on you. Some people have blackmail abilities just because what they have on you is too much for the world around you to know.

But let’s talk about TRUST, they failed to rent out the equipments we want just because they didn’t trust us, even though the one that sent us to the place knew the place but they fail to give us the equipments just because they didn’t trust us.

Trust is something we have to work for. You can’t just build trust out of the blues, we have to work for it..

How many times have we work for something in our lives ? What was that one thing you wanted on spot and failed to get it until you had to work for it..

Just as trust is, some other abstract concepts in life you’ve to work alot in life. That’s what is required. We have to work for it, nothing comes easy in life, easy is bad.

Bless up
Emitty

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Chillax,Graduate (parte v)

Will start today’s article with my all time fave hindi movie namely three idiots, when the imperial college principle was addressing the students, he said life is a race, you either run or get squashed.

That statement applies to us but for today am not talking about running and talking about tolerance, life is a race yea but if you live in daressalaam you it’s not a race. This is because there will always be a traffic jam some place always.

Am not from there but we usually see and hear of traffic jams and so on. So in traffic jams is where I would like to set my theme for today’s title tolerance. In life is not all about running but it’s about maintaining pace between what you had, who you are and who you want to be.

See the same person has a past, present and future now tolerance is how you live now with learnt experience of the past making or creating a better future that’s tolerance.

Am not conflict with the one who said the past is past or bygones be bygones what am saying is that let all the past be a learnt experience which will help you make moves today that are not from scratch but from a reference that will help you reach point in the future.

In a traffic jam there is always a slow/gradual movement towards the common place, in life that’s how we are some people maybe going fast in the route and you going slow it doesn’t matter what matters is your tolerance to wait to finish because even after the jam what’s next is a smooth ride to compensate wasted time…

Learn to take time and tolerate what is thrown at you..

Bless up
Emitty..

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Chill,Graduate. (Parte I)

The problem starts with the point of views, as you grow up the point of views change.

Have you asked yourself why as you grow and your grades become simpler but hard to get, well ask a kid what’s his or her grade in grade I or II, you’ll find out that it ranges over 90-100. That’s very normal.

As time goes on the idea of grades start to fall and this is okay to us, but hard to our parents and guardians.

They get unpleased with our fall in grades, to such a point that we force ourselves to fit in their dreams.

Case I: Scenarios to many people that are on my circle start when they are passionate with something else and forced to study with something else, the bad thing is that you grow accepting what you are doing without loving it, just to satisfy your guardians. In the long run when it comes to stand on your own you’re clouded with the feeling that it wasn’t your decision so you dont have to struggle hard to get a job, just to show them the I TOLD YOU SO FACE…

Case II: too much expectation Previous love with a certain hobby but as time goes on your hobbies are gone, you develop new interest but you find yourself in confusion simply because your hobbies made you make a choice that by the time you realise it can’t be change you’re already late. And thus when you’re done studying for you have nothing but hate and useless certification.

Case III: Our guardians definition of how life is in the university against our real life that we live. The point of views change, education system change and the education system is a fixed deduction system, what I mean is that its created to force people out, I did a piece about our education system

But also today I was reading a system whereby the life at school and university doesn’t match the real life situations and hence it’s hard for us graduates and students to adopt a new lifestyle over 21 years or 18years developed habits created by studying ..

The 18-21 years are the years that we spend in school. And the years are covered by hectic assignments, teachers and students beefs, unsupportive circle and fear of real world ..


Part 1
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Emitty

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The Drive

An empty cup can’t feel another cup, find your real purpose for yourself then serving others is minor purpose!!

A candle doesn’t loose anything by lighting another candle..

Two conflicting statements but on terms of accuracy that’s a 100 percent true. You can’t give what you dont have .

All my life have been asking what’s my purpose on earth, it’s not that I have found answers for that but still searching and the hustle of finding your life’s purpose you come and realize that you have some buttons that you previously didn’t know they exist.

Its when you agree to move from comfort zone and go out find your purpose, that’s when you understand your limits and your breaking point. Having all that in mind is a great thing because it makes you firstly experienced and second aware

Failure to meet your purpose is a wasted lifetime lived, you can think you’re on the right track to your purpose but you aren’t at all. You can be living someone’s else life in the name of it’s your purpose.

As I said I’m not there yet but what I know is purpose is placed on everyone the moment s/he has seen the light of earth.

And purpose will get you places that are you cannot reach when you haven’t discovered your purpose.

Purpose is yours and yours only, people will come to help you reach your purpose and not to help you in life , we getting in events such as heartbreaks and betrayal they are just lessons to be learnt and to redirect you to your purpose..

Find it…
Bless up
Emitty

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Growing Up in sleep (PT 1)

Never in my life have I ever hated to sleep except while growing up were I thought life was not fair in terms of me being forced to sleep as the highest stage of me being hated (my presence bothering people so the punishment was going to bed) and them covering it up was me sleeping daily to bring up a routine.

That notion always build several lessons and am going to share with you some of them..

1. Nothing is permanent, this is a common spoken phrase that we usually live with it, in swahili its modified to kwani dunia yote ni yetu, hayadumu. It was in the range of from 4years old towards 12 years, after that I quickly forgot how to sleep in the afternoon.

This tells you how things tend to change even of it won’t happen in an abrupt moment but will always change.

2. Your past will always have a way in your future, but regrets isn’t an option to run too. In this time as am grown, not that am old now but am grown just know that, the feeling of needing to be told to sleep in the afternoon comes to my mind but I dont get the time to have to sleep peacefully without of interruption from my busy schedule.

We learn to live with the facts what’s done can’t be undone. And so Is some facts maybe almost every aspect in life is tied on that aspect we learn and move but not regret.

3. Standard can be raised and lowered at the same time. The sleeping habit was a standard place and all kids of my age were supposed to sleep a specific time and specific interval. It was like a pattern that our guardians adopted and we had to live with it..

In life there are patterns that we have place for ourselves we have to reexamine them so as to make our life change at a positive pace.

4. Not everything is against you, sometimes it’s best for you, sleeping at the afternoon was great for our growth but on my side it was a torture, but so far it has helped me alot now I know, but back then it was a hell of a fight to put me in bed. Canes and sticks, slippers and even wires were the only method that could put me in bed .

In life we have to learn that not all or everything that comes your way is against you sometimes its for your own good, learn to embrace situations as they pass by simply because not we are tough but because we know there are lessons to learn and also they ain’t permanent.

To be continued…
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Emitty

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Bonding

In light of my recent endeavour I undertook, a project coordinated by a certain group of people and I was just invited to it. I personally love projects but this one I did it out of strong persuasion of one of the coordinators..

“Now it’s not that hard, I would just go and enjoy the project and my day will be done ” that’s what came into my mind. But the story changed soon after. Reaching the rendezvous point( meeting point) the coordinators that invited me was not on the same bus.

I’ve never had ever thought of being in such situation where you fail to bond with the people around you. That’s my hardest and toughest feeling that I can beat and even shake it off. I hate being in this situations.

It took time until i met the coordinator that had persuaded me earlier to come along the project…

This triggered my mind to examine my point of focus, ask your self what is your point of entry or point of balance in life, do you expect a person or group of individuals to come rescue you ??

Well if yes you’re in a road to disappointment because people get tired and even get bored to hold you up. It’s a messed up world we live in.

Way out, it’s okay to depend on people from time to time and it’s also not okay to depend on them always. That’s a great mistake ever to be made by individual.

Try to balance what we call in swahili shobo.. the human help will always have an end and we can help once with no regrets, twice with a head looking the other side,third time with our complain mode and in murmur but in the end we come to the breaking point and we dont help no more

Learn to stand on your own to create that peace of mind within yourself and also boost your mindset .

Bless Up.
Emitty…

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You are kept

You wake up every morning go to work or school or anywhere that you have scheduled to go come back home have the day through, you go to bed and the next day you are up again.

Yes we always are thankful that we get to see every single new day that the Almighty brings to us.

But there’s a reason to it. There are still lots to be done or fulfilled by you and through you. From the post realize your potential there are so many things that you carrying inside you and you really need not to let them die. You got to work them for yourself for the society and God’s kingdom as well. Do not say there’s still time you better start now, do not say am still young coz there’s greatness in you

You are kept for a reason and you better use that reason to yo living for your rope is running short.

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Naenda, Ila Panaboa

Je life la kitaa vipi?
Wakati wote tumeshazoea kuwa na mipango endelevu
Tunapenda kuwa na uwezo wa kuhimili shida zijazo mbele zetu.
lakini mara nyingi hatuna uwezo kwa asilimia zote kuzuia kwa asilimia 100
mara nyingi zinakuwa sio shida zetu ila ni mipango ambayo haijakaa fresh.

Mazoea yetu kila siku yanajenga tabia ambayo mara kwa mara inakuwa ngumu kukwepa au sahau mapema. Kwanza ni jambo la kushukuru Mungu kwa hapo ulipofika, uzima afya na nguvu ulionayo sio mipango yako ila kila kitu kinaenda poa. Tuna uwezo wa kujikinga dhidi ya magonjwa kwa kuthibiti vyakula tulavyo na hata kufanya mazoezi.

Nilipishana na mwanachuo aliyekuwa amepaki vitu vyake ili aende nyumbani,
nikamuuliza vipi mbona unaonekana hauna raha wala kama vile hutaki kwenda huko unapokwenda. ndiye aliyenijibu
ninaenda ila panaboa.

Baada ya kumaliza mitihani yangu nimekuwa na mud amrefu kusikiliza watu walionitangulia, walioko na hali kama mimi na hata kusikiliza watu na mawazo tofauti tofauti. kila mtu ana usemi wake juu ya mambo tofauti tofauti ni sisi kusikiliza nna kujifunza

Mwanzo nilicheka ila baada ya muda mawazo yakanijia ya kwanini anasema kuwa nyumbani kunaboa?
Naomba niongee na wewe uliyemaliza chuo kwa ngazi yeyote na hauna mwelekeo haswa upi unaweza kutumia ili utoboe kwanza mimi sipo hapa kukupa mchongo ila nakuambia nilichojifunza kati ya wiki moja au mbili.

Deadline:

Katika maisha ya kiwanafunzi tumezoea kuishi kwa deadline, naweza sema deadline ni hali au ka kamba kadogo ambacho tunajitahidi kufanikisha mambo huku tunaning’inia kwa hiyo kamba. mara nyingi ubora wa kazi hauwi mzuri kisa ya kufanya kazi kwa pressure. Muda hatuutumii ipasavyo na hili tumelichukulia sawa
tu kisa ni mazoea, mazoea ni vyema kuyajenga ila tuaangalie tunajenga nini na tunajengea wapi. Sasahivi inakuwa ngumu kuanza maisha mtaani kisa mtaani hamna deadline kama shule na pia hakuna mtu wa kusimamia au kuweka uzito ule kama wa shule, na hii hali unakuta mtu yuko radhi kutamani kurudi shule baadala ya kuhustle mtaani.

Kupokea Pokea:

Chuoni kama ulikuwa unapokea mkopo hapa naomba niongee na wewe sio mbaya ila mazoea yaambatanayo na maisha unayoishi ya mkopo ndo tunayangalia.
mkopo unatumia sawa na boom ulikuwa nalo so umejizoesha kwamba hela ipo. na wengi tumezizoeza kwamba hela ipo na mara nyingi ni rahisi kumiss chuo kisa ya hela kuingia kirahisi rahisi.Mtaani usiingie na mtazamo huo utakata maini mapema na kuona mtaa mchungu.

Connections:

Umemaliza shule na unategemea connection ndo zitakuweka mjini, sawa kama hizo connection umejijengea mwenyewe hapo sawa ila kama ni connections ambazo ni
ndugu au wazazi au watu wa karibu wamezitengeneza na wewe unategemea kuishi nazo embu acha kuweka matarajio makubwa hapo. ukiwa chuo hicho kizazi ulichonacho au watu wanaokuzunguka ndio hao watakutoa katika hali uliopo ndo muda haswa wakutengeneza michongo na dili za kuelekweka . na usije sema nyumbani utapata michongo. Nyumbani hakuna michingo ukikaa nyumbani utajipotezea uukaribu na hawa watu. Na mara nyingi tunakuwa na level tofauti katika maisha kisa ya kujitenga na wanafunzi wenzetu, walimu na hata watu wengine .

ITAENDELEA

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