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changes Constructive thinking knowledge life mentality and mental health

Work for it.

Well I was opportune to travel to a certain city for a team capacity building and the travelling was fine, but my task was with the media committee..

Well pre the training we had to set some stationeries to be used inside the training, example the training banner, notepads, name tags and even the layout for some templates for the training.

Then the issue of coverage and photo and memories keeping we needed a camera. Well the process was at first easy since I and the team were to move to a different region it would have been logical to go get a camera from the place we were going..

Well that wasn’t the best idea well the best move was us moving with our tools but we didn’t and that was fine at first . 

They say if you fail to prepare you prepare to fail, and that’s what happened, see we thought that it would be easy to get equipments just because once we had a project in that region and we were able to acquire equipments, little did we know that time is a varying factor ..

We failed to acquire equipments not because we didn’t have money to rent it but just because we didn’t have the right people to sign off as collateral for us to get it..

We even tried putting our items on bond but it didn’t  work out.. THAT’S A WORLD LESSON RIGHT HERE.

See its not what you have,it’s what people have on you. Some people have blackmail abilities just because what they have on you is too much for the world around you to know.

But let’s talk about TRUST, they failed to rent out the equipments we want just because they didn’t trust us, even though the one that sent us to the place knew the place but they fail to give us the equipments just because they didn’t trust us.

Trust is something we have to work for. You can’t just build trust out of the blues, we have to work for it..

How many times have we work for something in our lives ? What was that one thing you wanted on spot and failed to get it until you had to work for it..

Just as trust is, some other abstract concepts in life you’ve to work alot in life. That’s what is required. We have to work for it, nothing comes easy in life, easy is bad.

Bless up
Emitty

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graduate's depression knowledge life mentality and mental health

Chill,Graduate. (Parte I)

The problem starts with the point of views, as you grow up the point of views change.

Have you asked yourself why as you grow and your grades become simpler but hard to get, well ask a kid what’s his or her grade in grade I or II, you’ll find out that it ranges over 90-100. That’s very normal.

As time goes on the idea of grades start to fall and this is okay to us, but hard to our parents and guardians.

They get unpleased with our fall in grades, to such a point that we force ourselves to fit in their dreams.

Case I: Scenarios to many people that are on my circle start when they are passionate with something else and forced to study with something else, the bad thing is that you grow accepting what you are doing without loving it, just to satisfy your guardians. In the long run when it comes to stand on your own you’re clouded with the feeling that it wasn’t your decision so you dont have to struggle hard to get a job, just to show them the I TOLD YOU SO FACE…

Case II: too much expectation Previous love with a certain hobby but as time goes on your hobbies are gone, you develop new interest but you find yourself in confusion simply because your hobbies made you make a choice that by the time you realise it can’t be change you’re already late. And thus when you’re done studying for you have nothing but hate and useless certification.

Case III: Our guardians definition of how life is in the university against our real life that we live. The point of views change, education system change and the education system is a fixed deduction system, what I mean is that its created to force people out, I did a piece about our education system

But also today I was reading a system whereby the life at school and university doesn’t match the real life situations and hence it’s hard for us graduates and students to adopt a new lifestyle over 21 years or 18years developed habits created by studying ..

The 18-21 years are the years that we spend in school. And the years are covered by hectic assignments, teachers and students beefs, unsupportive circle and fear of real world ..


Part 1
Bless up
Emitty

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Swahili Episodes

Naenda, Ila Panaboa

Je life la kitaa vipi?
Wakati wote tumeshazoea kuwa na mipango endelevu
Tunapenda kuwa na uwezo wa kuhimili shida zijazo mbele zetu.
lakini mara nyingi hatuna uwezo kwa asilimia zote kuzuia kwa asilimia 100
mara nyingi zinakuwa sio shida zetu ila ni mipango ambayo haijakaa fresh.

Mazoea yetu kila siku yanajenga tabia ambayo mara kwa mara inakuwa ngumu kukwepa au sahau mapema. Kwanza ni jambo la kushukuru Mungu kwa hapo ulipofika, uzima afya na nguvu ulionayo sio mipango yako ila kila kitu kinaenda poa. Tuna uwezo wa kujikinga dhidi ya magonjwa kwa kuthibiti vyakula tulavyo na hata kufanya mazoezi.

Nilipishana na mwanachuo aliyekuwa amepaki vitu vyake ili aende nyumbani,
nikamuuliza vipi mbona unaonekana hauna raha wala kama vile hutaki kwenda huko unapokwenda. ndiye aliyenijibu
ninaenda ila panaboa.

Baada ya kumaliza mitihani yangu nimekuwa na mud amrefu kusikiliza watu walionitangulia, walioko na hali kama mimi na hata kusikiliza watu na mawazo tofauti tofauti. kila mtu ana usemi wake juu ya mambo tofauti tofauti ni sisi kusikiliza nna kujifunza

Mwanzo nilicheka ila baada ya muda mawazo yakanijia ya kwanini anasema kuwa nyumbani kunaboa?
Naomba niongee na wewe uliyemaliza chuo kwa ngazi yeyote na hauna mwelekeo haswa upi unaweza kutumia ili utoboe kwanza mimi sipo hapa kukupa mchongo ila nakuambia nilichojifunza kati ya wiki moja au mbili.

Deadline:

Katika maisha ya kiwanafunzi tumezoea kuishi kwa deadline, naweza sema deadline ni hali au ka kamba kadogo ambacho tunajitahidi kufanikisha mambo huku tunaning’inia kwa hiyo kamba. mara nyingi ubora wa kazi hauwi mzuri kisa ya kufanya kazi kwa pressure. Muda hatuutumii ipasavyo na hili tumelichukulia sawa
tu kisa ni mazoea, mazoea ni vyema kuyajenga ila tuaangalie tunajenga nini na tunajengea wapi. Sasahivi inakuwa ngumu kuanza maisha mtaani kisa mtaani hamna deadline kama shule na pia hakuna mtu wa kusimamia au kuweka uzito ule kama wa shule, na hii hali unakuta mtu yuko radhi kutamani kurudi shule baadala ya kuhustle mtaani.

Kupokea Pokea:

Chuoni kama ulikuwa unapokea mkopo hapa naomba niongee na wewe sio mbaya ila mazoea yaambatanayo na maisha unayoishi ya mkopo ndo tunayangalia.
mkopo unatumia sawa na boom ulikuwa nalo so umejizoesha kwamba hela ipo. na wengi tumezizoeza kwamba hela ipo na mara nyingi ni rahisi kumiss chuo kisa ya hela kuingia kirahisi rahisi.Mtaani usiingie na mtazamo huo utakata maini mapema na kuona mtaa mchungu.

Connections:

Umemaliza shule na unategemea connection ndo zitakuweka mjini, sawa kama hizo connection umejijengea mwenyewe hapo sawa ila kama ni connections ambazo ni
ndugu au wazazi au watu wa karibu wamezitengeneza na wewe unategemea kuishi nazo embu acha kuweka matarajio makubwa hapo. ukiwa chuo hicho kizazi ulichonacho au watu wanaokuzunguka ndio hao watakutoa katika hali uliopo ndo muda haswa wakutengeneza michongo na dili za kuelekweka . na usije sema nyumbani utapata michongo. Nyumbani hakuna michingo ukikaa nyumbani utajipotezea uukaribu na hawa watu. Na mara nyingi tunakuwa na level tofauti katika maisha kisa ya kujitenga na wanafunzi wenzetu, walimu na hata watu wengine .

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