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Work for it.

Well I was opportune to travel to a certain city for a team capacity building and the travelling was fine, but my task was with the media committee..

Well pre the training we had to set some stationeries to be used inside the training, example the training banner, notepads, name tags and even the layout for some templates for the training.

Then the issue of coverage and photo and memories keeping we needed a camera. Well the process was at first easy since I and the team were to move to a different region it would have been logical to go get a camera from the place we were going..

Well that wasn’t the best idea well the best move was us moving with our tools but we didn’t and that was fine at first . 

They say if you fail to prepare you prepare to fail, and that’s what happened, see we thought that it would be easy to get equipments just because once we had a project in that region and we were able to acquire equipments, little did we know that time is a varying factor ..

We failed to acquire equipments not because we didn’t have money to rent it but just because we didn’t have the right people to sign off as collateral for us to get it..

We even tried putting our items on bond but it didn’t  work out.. THAT’S A WORLD LESSON RIGHT HERE.

See its not what you have,it’s what people have on you. Some people have blackmail abilities just because what they have on you is too much for the world around you to know.

But let’s talk about TRUST, they failed to rent out the equipments we want just because they didn’t trust us, even though the one that sent us to the place knew the place but they fail to give us the equipments just because they didn’t trust us.

Trust is something we have to work for. You can’t just build trust out of the blues, we have to work for it..

How many times have we work for something in our lives ? What was that one thing you wanted on spot and failed to get it until you had to work for it..

Just as trust is, some other abstract concepts in life you’ve to work alot in life. That’s what is required. We have to work for it, nothing comes easy in life, easy is bad.

Bless up
Emitty

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Constructive thinking knowledge life mentality and mental health season Uncategorized

Mind Block

The pass few weeks have been in a state called writer’s block.

imagine it has when you drive or ride a car and you come to a dead end, or a point that you can’t go forward as the way you were going or think you would go.

so by definition given by Google, hehehe writers block is a condition, primarily associated with writing
in which an author loses the ability to produce new work or experiences a creative slowdown. This loss of ability to write and produce new work is not a result of commitment problems or the lack of writing skills. The condition ranges from difficulty in coming up with original ideas to being unable to produce a work for years. Writer’s block is not solely measured by time passing without writing. It is measured by time passing without productivity in the task at hand.

I’ve been falling to this situation not once not twice but more times than i remember and the funny part is that this is not a disease but its a mental state, its all in the head.

I’ve been having titles to many articles and even some of them writings half a paragraph then stuck but others only a single word, which it always works when i have noted down a single word ideas falls through and i start writing down but when in WB I mostly find myself staring at my notepad with no words to write down..

what i wanna show you is in the backstage to all our articles they lay alot of unpublished articles.

Some few times i usually pick my kid brother from school and in his school they have this tap where they drink the water, as i was taking him off school to home i felt thirsty and decided to go drink some water in found a very long line so i decided to join it and off it started to move slowly till it was my turn. as i was moving along it opened my eyes as if the people in front of me and behind me they were all unfinished projects.

they’re unfinished projects until the primary goal of drinking water has been completed, the line showed me i was that all projects were leading to the same goal so i should learn to make them move one at a time and also see them through one at a time not to hesitate. and if it reaches to a point that i should pile them up pile em in a manner that you can work them out to the end to the end.

See in life we come into deadblocks because of just piling alot of things in our plates thinking that its easy to just place them some where but in the end we have alot to handle all because of piling them up.

learn to regulate what is on your plate as what comes in your mind and execute on thing to the end never be fast to procrastinate what you have in your mind.

Bless up
Emitty

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Constructive thinking festivity life

PACKAGES & PARCELS

boxes and gifts wrapped

Ever received two packages or parcel of the same content ?? was the package packing the same one hundred percent ?

CASE ONE:
The way parcel and packages are packed. its a festive season and gifts are offered each parcel is tried to be covered as much as possible and hidden from a direct identification from the receiver of the gift..

CASE TWO:
The way receiver is anxiously awaiting for the package to be given to them. The package is well covered and sometimes we end up coming up with assumption of what is inside, but we never know whats inside…

CASE THREE:
The way we rip out the cover to reveal what’s is inside never care the packaging and the way the package was once a beautiful part of the package or gift .

Now in all the cases the first thing is that the package even if it was the same content was never and will never be 💯 percent identical this is one key factor to notice

Now parenting is a perfect illustration of the packaging and unwrapping of gifts..

To lay to rest of the three observation/cases . Here we come and see that ,

CASE ONE : THE HIDDEN FIGURE
I name it hidden figure because a child come as a gift and mostly talents and inborn gifts are hidden from the parents. no matter what how parents would like to their kids to be the won’t be able to know till the kid is born and started the process of growing ( thus why it resembles the stage of coming up with assumptions of what is inside the package)

CASE TWO: THE GET READY STAGE
named as the stage that the parents are already with the gift but cant yet open it up due to the timing, sometimes a gift is offered but the time is not yet to open it up.. This is the stage that the parents are waiting when will the kid be born. and here is where some assumption made earlier will be reduced to some simple and more clearer assumption ( its a boy or its a girl they are twins or not)

CASE THREE; THE RIPPING OF THE WRAPPER
The ripping of the cover that was covering the package is another case. ripping the cover many people just never care the cover ( unzipping your kids talent parents never care the packaging) they just remove the cover in order to just see the package and never knowing the ripping also needs carefulness …

All in all even if the process that parents nurturing a kid to reveal their inborn talent wont be the same its not up to the kids making comparisons between oneself to the other who has the same talent as oneself…

we are all raised in a way that our parents think that’s the best way possible. you were their gift and they ripped it the way they wanted. never compare yourself from any other person, don’t ever think it was your parents fault that you are like that, its God’s plan you to be like that…

Bless Up

Emitty.

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