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Chillax,Graduate (parte v)

Will start today’s article with my all time fave hindi movie namely three idiots, when the imperial college principle was addressing the students, he said life is a race, you either run or get squashed.

That statement applies to us but for today am not talking about running and talking about tolerance, life is a race yea but if you live in daressalaam you it’s not a race. This is because there will always be a traffic jam some place always.

Am not from there but we usually see and hear of traffic jams and so on. So in traffic jams is where I would like to set my theme for today’s title tolerance. In life is not all about running but it’s about maintaining pace between what you had, who you are and who you want to be.

See the same person has a past, present and future now tolerance is how you live now with learnt experience of the past making or creating a better future that’s tolerance.

Am not conflict with the one who said the past is past or bygones be bygones what am saying is that let all the past be a learnt experience which will help you make moves today that are not from scratch but from a reference that will help you reach point in the future.

In a traffic jam there is always a slow/gradual movement towards the common place, in life that’s how we are some people maybe going fast in the route and you going slow it doesn’t matter what matters is your tolerance to wait to finish because even after the jam what’s next is a smooth ride to compensate wasted time…

Learn to take time and tolerate what is thrown at you..

Bless up
Emitty..

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Rough side of the paper

basically every movie that has been credited as best movie or worse movie started as from an idea then noted down on a paper and then engagement of people such as actors,directors and stunt pullers all depends on the type of movie

well life is a movie is the most common used quote,phrase in our daily life,
why is it so, this is because there ups and down in life that makes it true good to believe, hard to bear and tough even to think of it. thats life in a plain sentences.

Most writers have the tendence of writing all things down so as to have a perfect journal or piece of writing before they post, some even write with pencil so as to have it perfectly, during exams. we usually had to write rough with pencil then rub it off after we are done.

in the exams we were either given alot of plain papers, a huge booklet with plenty of papers, or some book aside
just to do the rough scripting of our work before we did submit our paper with answers.

well am not taking you back to your school days but i just want to lay a ground for what we developed as a
mindset and what is the reality. Schools offered as an understanding that we are been taught a lesson then waiting on a test to prove how we are competent or test our comprehesion on a specific topic. well we did that for over 15+ years of schooling
we get schooled in class and what was close to reality was the suprising quizes and test only.

Because so far life has been different and totally way more opposite than school, life being unfair as commented by most people is because alot of people are used to learn first and then tested after learning the lesson of which come think of it,that is a way easy way to win or ace something because you are already familiar with it,but thats not how this messed up thing called life is.

No papers for rough no grades no list of who is on the top or bottom but we are all tested differently and all these are what create or makes us our own best, no school fees of higher grades so as to get best education and better opportunities to learn, life is still the best teacher they say.
why is it so? to my own understanding this is because we are all taught by the same teacher by the reverse method teachung technique. test first then lesson later its doesnt wait to teach you first then test you first.

so for every one that you see shining and you say that life has given him/her the green side of it, just know there was a rough, dirtified pieces of paper of messing up and alot of tearing up of sheets just because s/he was offered first the rough side then later successfully passed and advanced on the green side. so just know the
challenges you are getting now are just the tests you’ve been offered and the lessons you learn will implicate what side you’ll be after attempting the test called life.

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