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Growing Up in sleep (PT 1)

Never in my life have I ever hated to sleep except while growing up were I thought life was not fair in terms of me being forced to sleep as the highest stage of me being hated (my presence bothering people so the punishment was going to bed) and them covering it up was me sleeping daily to bring up a routine.

That notion always build several lessons and am going to share with you some of them..

1. Nothing is permanent, this is a common spoken phrase that we usually live with it, in swahili its modified to kwani dunia yote ni yetu, hayadumu. It was in the range of from 4years old towards 12 years, after that I quickly forgot how to sleep in the afternoon.

This tells you how things tend to change even of it won’t happen in an abrupt moment but will always change.

2. Your past will always have a way in your future, but regrets isn’t an option to run too. In this time as am grown, not that am old now but am grown just know that, the feeling of needing to be told to sleep in the afternoon comes to my mind but I dont get the time to have to sleep peacefully without of interruption from my busy schedule.

We learn to live with the facts what’s done can’t be undone. And so Is some facts maybe almost every aspect in life is tied on that aspect we learn and move but not regret.

3. Standard can be raised and lowered at the same time. The sleeping habit was a standard place and all kids of my age were supposed to sleep a specific time and specific interval. It was like a pattern that our guardians adopted and we had to live with it..

In life there are patterns that we have place for ourselves we have to reexamine them so as to make our life change at a positive pace.

4. Not everything is against you, sometimes it’s best for you, sleeping at the afternoon was great for our growth but on my side it was a torture, but so far it has helped me alot now I know, but back then it was a hell of a fight to put me in bed. Canes and sticks, slippers and even wires were the only method that could put me in bed .

In life we have to learn that not all or everything that comes your way is against you sometimes its for your own good, learn to embrace situations as they pass by simply because not we are tough but because we know there are lessons to learn and also they ain’t permanent.

To be continued…
Bless up
Emitty

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Bonding

In light of my recent endeavour I undertook, a project coordinated by a certain group of people and I was just invited to it. I personally love projects but this one I did it out of strong persuasion of one of the coordinators..

“Now it’s not that hard, I would just go and enjoy the project and my day will be done ” that’s what came into my mind. But the story changed soon after. Reaching the rendezvous point( meeting point) the coordinators that invited me was not on the same bus.

I’ve never had ever thought of being in such situation where you fail to bond with the people around you. That’s my hardest and toughest feeling that I can beat and even shake it off. I hate being in this situations.

It took time until i met the coordinator that had persuaded me earlier to come along the project…

This triggered my mind to examine my point of focus, ask your self what is your point of entry or point of balance in life, do you expect a person or group of individuals to come rescue you ??

Well if yes you’re in a road to disappointment because people get tired and even get bored to hold you up. It’s a messed up world we live in.

Way out, it’s okay to depend on people from time to time and it’s also not okay to depend on them always. That’s a great mistake ever to be made by individual.

Try to balance what we call in swahili shobo.. the human help will always have an end and we can help once with no regrets, twice with a head looking the other side,third time with our complain mode and in murmur but in the end we come to the breaking point and we dont help no more

Learn to stand on your own to create that peace of mind within yourself and also boost your mindset .

Bless Up.
Emitty…

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You are kept

You wake up every morning go to work or school or anywhere that you have scheduled to go come back home have the day through, you go to bed and the next day you are up again.

Yes we always are thankful that we get to see every single new day that the Almighty brings to us.

But there’s a reason to it. There are still lots to be done or fulfilled by you and through you. From the post realize your potential there are so many things that you carrying inside you and you really need not to let them die. You got to work them for yourself for the society and God’s kingdom as well. Do not say there’s still time you better start now, do not say am still young coz there’s greatness in you

You are kept for a reason and you better use that reason to yo living for your rope is running short.

Bless up

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Upside down

Hello there, as we celebrating the beginning of the new year, I wanna talk to a person who found him or her self worthless and took a decision to live someone else’s life, to a person who thought that he/she could not fit in a certain group of people, to a person who was or is in plans to do his or her stuff but still thinking on what people gonna say about it.

Let me ask you one thing, for how long will you live your life while driven with other people’s words or views?(“like they want you be like this be like that”). You really need to put an end to this because there’s no any day that you will really feel yourself because you’ll always be living some other people’s life in a way that it never gives you a chance to excel the you.

As now you in a new year, why don’t you just start appreciating the you and just help yourself to be you and do your own things in your own way coz there was never and there will never be someone who is there to remote control your life just because they want you to live the way they want you to. It’s some sort of slavery I can say. You have your unique ways of living your life or doing your things without caring what people gonna say about you . You just need to close your ears and eyes and put a step forward to what you want to do and you’ll see how great you are and even people who wanted you to live the way they wanted you, you’ll find respect in them and you’ll get them so surprised that you leave them mouth open and they may even come to you and ask how do you do, how did you make it happen. This is your year do your things in your way, make it be an upside down magic life.

Happy New year 2021

Bless up

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Just appreciate

How many times have you tried to take your time to appreciate somebody or something even if it really didn’t touch you?

Did you know that you can uplift one’s heart by just saying a word or by just showing an appreciation to him or her?

Most of us get to do things, but sometimes we find them useless or we find them meaningless and we end up leaving them just there. But for one to gain the speed to do it again and even better, s/he just need a single word from you to just appreciate what s/he has done or is doing.

Trust me, even you who are reading this right now there are times you just need someone to appreciate what you are doing or what you have done isn’t it. To be done so feels like there’s an energy catalysed within which makes you do that thing more and even better. Just appreciate

Bless up

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No other colors ?

The black and white picture

in the earlier days, yes i Know some of you weren’t born yet the first TV’s and cameras gave a monochrome pictures or videos, also the videos had no sound in the earlier days.

The colors involved were black and white only no any other colors were able to be produced, there is a technical explanation to all that but i wont bother you with the technical hepee jeepes of the mechanism of the pictures or videos.

But the concept that i want you to have is the bright colors would acquired the white color and dark colors would acquire the black color.
this is the concept

Same applies to life we are just like the old monochrome tv, its easy to judge, react or get disappointed or dissatisfaction because we just know half of the color… a single error done by a person we term it as a point for a greater judgement and we don’t give room to ask questions.

we easily be judges and lawyers when someone has wrong us without asking questions. we never give a room for a person to say or State why s/he has done why all these ??

we all act sometimes like monochrome tv were all the darks we only see dark and not light and all the white we see only white.

sometimes even good people are bad at making good decision. and we are never perfect all hundred percent. we have some dark portion that have a white reasons but we never get a chance to represent our why’s but what people see is the dark..

learn not to settle for only whites pr blacks in your life .. learn to give yourself a chance to learn the why’s to a person’s actions…

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We have reasons…

A few weeks ago, to be precise 28th and 29th of last month that’s November, me and the team got a nomination to participate in the universities and college awards and I was just the public figure who will present the team to the judge in the category of best volunteers.

the script was simple to get into the stage present a few projects, wait on the judges if they had any inquiries or questions about the team answer them drop down wait for the winner to be announced after every other contestant have to get on the stage.

In the process of waiting my turn, I asked my colleague for a speech that I’ll present that was a day before my presentation and she sent me this wonderful speech. But this was after a few dramatic episodes of asking what language she should write the speech.

Generally, the speech was centred on why do we do volunteering? her response was beautiful.

Saturday, 28 Nov 2020 03:54 PM

As humans, we are species of togetherness. No matter how much busy the world seems today it still needs people who are willing to give what they are blessed with for the joy of others and themselves.

I have chosen to be among the giving generation. Because I choose happiness. Because Volunteering is a two way street beneficiary to both the community and the volunteers themselves.

Because Volunteering gives me a purpose in life. It makes up a part of who I am, boosting up my self esteem and confidence. Bringing me close to the people and expanding my social base.

Volunteering reminds me that no matter how odd things may be; as humans we are species of kindness and we have got two hands one for helping out the others and the second one for steadying ourselves up. (by @skylaurel)

What I want to show here isn’t my chats with my colleague but to tell you that anything you do or you have done has always had a reason and for us to do what we do that is volunteering is not that we have a lot but we know and understand the need to be loved and being acknowledged both our existence and needs.

we start small but in the long run, we want all people that are around us to give their time, love, and some portion of what their blessing to the environment around them. For we are nothing without them and they are a part of what we live for,for there is nothing we can do without them.

for a doctor needs a patient, a husband needs a wife, teachers need students and businesses need clients. Reaching out for them means creating a path for a feedback of blessing. Am not standing here to tell you to help all but help one or two because youre capable of it.

Someone cant help everyone but everyone can help someone. Join us to be the change we want to see in the community.

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Reasons to reasoning…

we walk we the philosophy that everything happens for a reason and we stick on it and generating or joining dots that all that comes after was a big picture from the action that occurred earlier.

what if not everything goes as planned and we fail getting to the bigger picture.

so does it mean even our personal failure to approach a certain task is planned ??

well am not here to judge but lets works on some smaller concept that we build our believe on everything happens for a reason, well some do but rest from the some are not happening because its planned or reason.

our ignorance on certain issues shouldn’t give us the confidence to say so.

for a car to move you need fuel and we expect that if the fuel goes low or empty the car will not move . now we mostly let the fuel empty expecting that the car to keep on running or going.

lets replace this philosophy, and the reason so is because the problems or difficulties you face it’s because someone fail to play his or her part very well..

example you get bitten by a snake that’s a problem, you got bitten you won’t say there is a reason but it was a failure of a person who once saw the snake and failed to kill it saying that its too small or it hasn’t harm me.

so you see any problem you can think of it is because of a failure of someone else and the failure was probably or most even caused by a person saying it happened for a reason.

we all are ignorant or lazy on some matters we should learn to minimize our laziness to a minimal degree and stop saying things happen for a reason .

Bless Up
Emitty

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Mind Block

The pass few weeks have been in a state called writer’s block.

imagine it has when you drive or ride a car and you come to a dead end, or a point that you can’t go forward as the way you were going or think you would go.

so by definition given by Google, hehehe writers block is a condition, primarily associated with writing
in which an author loses the ability to produce new work or experiences a creative slowdown. This loss of ability to write and produce new work is not a result of commitment problems or the lack of writing skills. The condition ranges from difficulty in coming up with original ideas to being unable to produce a work for years. Writer’s block is not solely measured by time passing without writing. It is measured by time passing without productivity in the task at hand.

I’ve been falling to this situation not once not twice but more times than i remember and the funny part is that this is not a disease but its a mental state, its all in the head.

I’ve been having titles to many articles and even some of them writings half a paragraph then stuck but others only a single word, which it always works when i have noted down a single word ideas falls through and i start writing down but when in WB I mostly find myself staring at my notepad with no words to write down..

what i wanna show you is in the backstage to all our articles they lay alot of unpublished articles.

Some few times i usually pick my kid brother from school and in his school they have this tap where they drink the water, as i was taking him off school to home i felt thirsty and decided to go drink some water in found a very long line so i decided to join it and off it started to move slowly till it was my turn. as i was moving along it opened my eyes as if the people in front of me and behind me they were all unfinished projects.

they’re unfinished projects until the primary goal of drinking water has been completed, the line showed me i was that all projects were leading to the same goal so i should learn to make them move one at a time and also see them through one at a time not to hesitate. and if it reaches to a point that i should pile them up pile em in a manner that you can work them out to the end to the end.

See in life we come into deadblocks because of just piling alot of things in our plates thinking that its easy to just place them some where but in the end we have alot to handle all because of piling them up.

learn to regulate what is on your plate as what comes in your mind and execute on thing to the end never be fast to procrastinate what you have in your mind.

Bless up
Emitty

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Work out your Faith

Everyone under the sun has something that he or she believes in. Some societies believe in this and the other society believe in that, same applied to religion. Every religion has something that they believe in.

Whatever you believe in that’s Faith.

So I can simply define faith as the assurance of things to come and beyond the unseen. Why faith, why should you work out your faith? Most of us today run to be prayed for,run for prophecies that we believe and faith have in them that they will help us out and get us to somewhere better. But we forget that the faith we have is built in people, things,prophecies, prayers and so on and so forth, this makes the faith you have in you go low, forgetting that you can work out your own faith and things can get to work as they work with that faith you’ve kept over things or people. The good book says if you can only have faith as little as the mustard seed you can tell this mountain move and it moves. By saying this let me get to ask you a question how will you work out the little faith you have if you still put faith on other people to pray for you or on things or prophecies, why don’t you for once stand and say to yourself that from now on I got the authority of anything that’s around and we’ll yes of course you got the authority, you are given the authority. Instead of going to yo pastor or sheikh or whoever and ask him or her to pray for you maybe because you are sick, taking that as an example,you can just take a step and pray for yourself and have faith that it is done and you are healed. Well I don’t say that you really need not to go ask for help in prayer, you need that, I too need that, but whenever you find it not necessary for you to go and ask help from somebody to be prayed for just work your faith and see it happen. I assure you as you keep doing that from time to time and see things happen your faith will grow and grow and grow.

Bless up

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