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Life, Love, Levels

There are three key points that are guaranteed to you to live a smooth life. Am not saying having a smooth life but living a smooth life.

see, many of us are not happy with how life is right now and we end blaming people not knowing we are responsible for our own lives

living a smooth life means you can still have troubles but you can live as if troubles are not part of your routine. But having a smooth life means not having troubles at all. Now what i mean is how do we live when all seems off and not in our favor.

So let me ask you this. What do you do when you face alot in your plate and don’t have courage to eat it all.

what do you do when you ask for meat and life brings you stones.

sometimes its easy to blame than to know the right purpose of the situation your facing.

Life
Life has no gender, never bias and will never be fair to those lamenting. if you think that because of the wealth that you have or the number of people you’re connected with will make life to look aside for you to have the better side of it then you ate wrong. life will never be as we imagine it to be.

love.
we have our notion on how and the what love is and how to love, who do we love . some people have put on standards to what you love and hate. not a judge but let me tell you having a smooth life means realising all the hatred you have  built in your hearts, learn to appreciate people for the positive stories and forgive the negatives but in the process of laying a room a specific distance, show them its not everyone think they can hurt you then come back to the place They previous position they left off….

Levels.
we are all equal but we got a variance in our abilities to convert time also known as time conversion, we all have 24hours a day but we use the hours differently so if you ever wanna envy someone for his or her success just know its all your mindset of approaching the concept of time conversion. you want to he successful or you want a smooth life then just examine your 24 hours what do you do with them.

All in all the key is to work on having a life that is not a burden or life that is not full of drama, know when to forgive and never carry a grudge, love people with no reason, hate none, just know you also have a shot to the top..

Bless Up
Emitty …

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Constructive thinking knowledge life mentality and mental health

The 32 you, The 64 you

growing up is never been easy, am sure there a lot of memories you have while you were a kid some you proud of and some you don’t.

That version of tinny you just peeing in bed Everytime that you sleep, the angry you and the parenting lies. (if you sleep in the afternoon you’ll watch tv tomorrow afternoon, not knowing that tomorrow the same scenario continues)

Same applies to school stuff while we were growing up. Don’t end up class seven there are a lot of stuffs you need to know inorder to stand very well financially. so you’ll add up the ordinary level education as form one to form four. when you are done with it you’ll hear them saying add another and so for it goes up to when you get a degree and then you land a job.

landing a job is just as computers executing applications. so there are many operating system (os) but the common one is the windows which has gain it’s market since the early 90s now the version has two architecture that is the 32-bits and 64-bits

in observation apps with 32bits can run in 64bit but vice versa ain’t possible. it’s is the same as a flat screwdriver can open a star screw but star screwdriver can’t open up a flat type screw.

sometimes upgrading what skill you have will play a greater advantage to you, because you’ll be marketable in terms of you can decide for both opportunities that comes that are your level or way below your level.

having the abilities that exceeds the required option gives you room to attain posts that are a lower level than you and the level that you on…

so upgrade and keep on upgrading yourself so as to give your self a firm standing point..

Bless up
Emitty

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The Beginning

well let’s take it from the start with a simple scenario based on true story.

growing up is never been and will never be easy. we all have some stories of growth and all these stories shapes us into what we are right now.

we were raised either to work by fear or delegating work thinking we are able to do so. formation of classes started here people who are scared to make moves thinking they cant due to fear and another class of ruthless 

we grew up not knowing what to do what if our ideas were listened and taken to consideration, so we created a wall that’s fear of rejection, we won’t make a move because we are scared to be turned down. We were trained that we only have to listen to people who are older to us.

with even advancement of technology we trying to cope with it, will be noted as hooliganism, moral degraded and visionless teen. this has created a wall of anticipation, we see all chances offered are scams and aint aiming for us to take them.

we grow up socializing, making bonds with people and we do things together thinking it will always be like that, but it doesn’t appear that way we create comfort in people while we in school not knowing that we won’t stuck with them always  after school or college we are left alone. Mob isn’t a team, its a temporary gathering that has come into place for a short period of time.

depression can’t be caused suddenly but it’s built slowly slowly as time goes. i can’t treat depression but you can always share whats bothering you. stop piling what’s in your heart..

Bless up
Emitty

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What You Eat

In a restaurant or grocery there will always be a list of food, we can order all but we don’t. we decide to pick some and eat then leave.

There are a lot ot menus in the world, what I mean is there are a lot of foods to eat and to be cooked and they can all be cooked under different techniques to raise different taste.

we all have different taste on our cuisine. The foods used in one part of the globe can be different from the other part of the globe.

we can eat all that if we decide too, but we sometimes have placed standard on what we eat and what we don’t .

In real life we can say the information around the globe is the food we choose on eating or taste. there are a lot of information going around us. we can’t eat all the information That’s out there what we can do is choose the quantity of what we eat and even decided on what not to eat.

we luck standards of what we digest any information we digest on it without processing the depth of it.

we should accept that not every information out there is for us to take in and process it. not everything we hear are ours to process, many relationship and stable connection are cancelled or die due to what we hear and decide to process. Be careful with the information that goes around you.

We live in a world that we eat what is around us , digest it no matter how  and release it

Bless Up. Emitty

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Swahili Episodes

Mbele Kupo…

Kama jana nilikuacha unaelea basi nakuomba radhi ila soma tena halafu uendelee na ya leo.
Leo naanza kwa kusema ni jana tuliongelea vitu vichache kuhusu maisha baada ya chuo kuingia mtaani.
Haijalishi umechelewaje kufanya mambo ila kama imepangwa utoboe lazima utatoboa.

Tuongee uhalisia kuna watu makundi mawili pindi chuo kinafunguliwa au masomo yeyote yanapoanza.

Kundi la kwanza na la pili ni kama yafuatayo.
ni wale wanaojua wanasoma nini na wanajua nini kinawapeleka shule, halafu kuna kundi la watu wanaenda shule kwa sababu ndiyo hatua (the next stage) wanayotakiwa kuchukua. Mimi kiukweli sijui ulikuwa stage gani ila hapa ndio hatua ya kwanza ya kuweza kujisaidia kuingia mtaani.

Sasa kama ulikuwa unajua unafanya nini shule au huelewi mimi sio jaji wa maisha ila kuna jambo la kuchunguza mara nyingi kwa sisi ambao hatujielewi ni presha tulionao kutoka kwa mazingira tuliotoka ikiwemo kama mzazi mlezi au ndugu haya yote yanaletwa kwa sababu zifuatazo ninazozielewa

Kwanza Mifumo yao wanataka iwe yetu:
Kila mtoto au kila mtu ana mfumo wake wa malezi ukiangalia familia zenye mtoto zaidi ya mmoja ukiangalia wazazi ni wale wale ila kila mtoto ana namna ya malezi. sasa hili watu wengi hawajui na tunaishia kuona kama kila jinsi mtu anavyoishi ndivyo na sisi tunabidi tuishi. Hapana. “haijalishi umechelewaje kufanya mambo ila kama imepangwa utoboe lazima utatoboa” usijifananishe namna yako ya maisha
na namna ya maisha ya mtu mwingine. Si laumu ila wazazi wengi wanataka watoto waunge tela. wawe pale nyuma yao wafanye vile vile walivyofanya wakiwa vijana. Kama alikuwa daktari atataka mtoto wake awe daktari kwa hyo inabidi mtoto afuate kila njia aliyopitia.

Ya Majirani Kwetu
Saa ingine mafanikio au maneno ya watu huleta adhari kwenye maamuzi ya walezi au hata wazazi wetu. Utasikia wewe fulani kuwa kama mtoto wa fulani unaona kaenda chuo kachukua engineering kawa mtu wa serikali, bila kujali hata mtoto anataka nini sasa haya huleta shida kwa mtoto bila hata mzazi kujua kwa haraka.

Madhara yake ni wazi kwa maisha ya watoto mfano ni ngumu kufanya maamuzi binafsi.
Embu mtafute mwanafunzi aliyemaliza chuo kwa ngazi ya diploma au degree kwa haraka haraka muulize nini kinafuata? wengi watakuambia hawajui na wengi wanaona njia rahisi ni kuendelea kusoma si semi kusoma si jambo zuri ila naona kama ni njia ya kukimbia ukweli. jana tuliona suala zima la deadlines as mtu yuko rahisi kuendelea
kusoma kisa ndo njia rahisi kwake kuwa na control ya mambo yake. Ukiwa shule unnaweza kuwa na usukani wa mambo kisa ni mambo machache tu unayofanya ambayo utawaza tu ada,modules na wapi utapata chakula, mavazi na wapi utalala. ila mtaani life haieleweki mambo yanakuwaga mengi kiasi wengi wanaogopa ingia mtaani kupambana

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