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BElieve YOUrself(Be You)

You are a single product in this life never want to live somebody else’s life

in taking something new we believe we have to dig deep and give the best of ourselves towards the new stuff, its okay but I find it unnecessary.

we loose things from our first encounter with it and wonder why we lost it while we thinking that we tried our best to keep it.

who told us we have to try so hard impressing and try so hard becoming something we are not used too?

we end up messing up on first encounters believing that we have to impress everything and everyone that we come across too.

the real fruit is mostly found on the inside you have to peel it so to eat it, but before reach a stage of eating it you should let it be. what I mean  is that there is a period of not peeling of a period of just watching it on the outward level.

not every encounter is a show off encounter, not every meet is a 1o1 session to be perfect.

if Michael Jackson could try being a different version than he’s singing career then we would have not know him. Same as Muhammad Ali..

no one is perfect stop being someone else or stop trying so hard to fix and fit in someone else story. Never try so hard being there in a different version that are not the normal you.

NF says the real you is when no one is watching,

it’s not hard to be how when no one is watching that is the way we should be and never embrace something that we are not. Am not saying wr shouldn’t try new things but what I’m implying is that we should address our situations/problems as we are  not as we think people want us to address it.

Fid Q says we fail because we address stuff as we are or how we thought we should instead of addressing them as they are , things addresses as they are never complex

One word to pick on this is that never try to rip yourself just to show yourself. just be you the real you, yes you as you and not as the way they want you to be seen.

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As Love As Hate…

“In a time where you have to give something, giving nothing is also something to be giving”

Few weeks back I was sent a writing challenge and it was all about writing about something you loved as if you hate it.

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At first I was in a puzzle, I couldn’t understand the challenge so I had to ask the one who sent the question to ellaborate more for me.

Well up to now i haven’t written anything yet because I find it weird writing what i love as i hate it.

How many times are we like this challenge, we do act like we hate what we love. Its similar to pretence but I don’t want to put it that way. We apply this formulae in alot of ours stuffs to a point that we are seen as dramatic people.

Let me put it this way, yesterday was Mother’s day ( Happy belated mothers day mothers out there.), I saw alot of people posting nice words about their moms, I even got some new sweet words from them. To some it was genuine to others was just another social media post

What I am trying to say is even in relationship we don’t acknowledge directly the partner we have we are acting as kid and putting unnecessary drama to it, to an extent it turns to hate . The thing you once love turns to hate.

Am not an expert in relationship and maybe the words today wont hit you up due to the represent of it, but if i got to get something through to you is this. You can’t love it then you acting as you hate it, hoping the other side should interpret your drama as love, sometimes the hate stands out more outwardly more than the love and you may end up loosing it all.

“Bless up”

Emitty

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Pay It Foward

Reflection.
Do good and the good will come back to you.

One day a mother and her son were having good time together, suddenly the mother started coughing and having a hard time in breathing, the son knew what she was suffering from (Asthma) but did not know how to help his mother because she had no any inhaler with her. The boy got out and went to a pharmacy so that he could help his mother get an inhaler. He reached there and found himself with no money. Remembering his mother’s situation back home he was not left with choice but to steal one of the inhalers that were being sold in that pharmacy. The seller saw him stealing and started chasing him, when they were out in a Chase the seller finally caught him in a corner and banged him on a wall so hard, he started questioning him, the kid knowing his mother’s condition tried fighting back. Then appeared a woman and asked what’s the chaos all about and the seller said that the kid stole an inhaler from his pharmacy and the kid replied I have no money I’m just trying to help my mom she’s sick, she’s dying. That woman looked at the kid and asked the seller how much the inhaler cost, the seller told her the amount. The woman dug into her purse and gave out the amount that was mentioned and the seller left. The kid was so surprised by the action that the woman did and he had to ask her “you do not know me neither have we met before,why did you help me?”. The woman looked at the kid and gave him a piece of paper and told him go help your mother. When he reached home, he gave his mother the inhaler and the mother got saved from the situation. The kid went in his room and opened that piece of paper and he saw these words PAY IT FORWARD.

Years passed and the kid grew up into a doctor. One day a patient came and had no enough money to pay for the treatments. The one attending to the patient told her that “we can’t help you so you just go back and look for somebody who can give the help”. Over a sudden that kid (currently the doctor) came inside that very room and told the one attending the patient “I’ll be in charge of everything just leave it all to me”. The patient was then helped,given a room and a bed to sleep so as she could be treated. After a while the doctor(kid) went inside the room where the patient lied and asked about her wellbeing. She was so thankful for what the doctor did to her. But she was in a doubt and had to ask why did you help me? The doctor smiled and took a paper from his coat and gave it to the woman it was written “PAY IT FORWARD”.

This woman was the very same lady who helped the doctor the other day back in time.

What you reap is what you sow. Just as the Newton’s third law state “For every action there is an equal but opposite reaction”. Just do good and the good will definitely come back to you.

Bless up.

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We as Trees..

Ever wanted to be born in a different family, region or country than the one you are in right now? Have you ever wished you could apply for a change pf parents?

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Some of us love our environment and we would do campaigns to influence people to plant trees and preserve the natural vegetation.

If you are one of them well and good, i personally appreciate your efforts but today am raising a topic from that side of view.

In order for a tree to survive or to grow it needs water or moisture, soil and also sunshine helps with the photosynthesis which is the process of making its own food. I’ll not go in deep into the biology but this is the basic concept.

Now also we need all the similar facts for growth we need water in terms of knowledge, this will allow us to not only develop but to get off the seed of ignorance. when we are watered as in terms of acquiring knowledge we will grow.

Soil is the environment that we are the parents, friends and relatives they play the role of soil as in trees.

Sunshine in this perspective let me give the opportunities around us, sunshine help the tree grow also opportunity help to move from one point to another, level to level and so forth. grab all opportunity that arise daily. Because if a tree fails to get sunshine it remains the same level.

After a tree is full grown its either used for shade and also fruits and oxygen provision also accumulation of carbon dioxide in the daylight and oxygen at night.

After we grow its not only useful for us but also we are useful to the surrounding too. we can be a source of replica of ourselves where we train others to be as us.

But let also know that when we are too much good for the environment the surrounding will try to cut us down and make us into other products

Well the above are facts that are well known and now some facts that are known but not taken into consideration seriously.

The tree or the seed that brings the tree doesn’t choose were it should grow, it accepts the ground and try to fight so it can grow.

The good book once said of a man who wanted to plant seed on the farm and some seeds failed to get into the good soil while some seeds made it to the good soil some were eaten by birds, some went into thorns.

The concept here is the seed has to realize that its of great potential even if is at the stage of seed or a tree and if it realizes that its the first stage to fight more to grow more

Same as us we can’t choose were to be born. that is why earlier the question was did you ever wanted to change where you were born, the family you are into ?

A tree has to deal with the condition that has been planted on. It cant complain that ooh i have been planted in no good condition, i can’t grow better. but it still grow

It does not need you to complain but it only require you to shift your mind into what you are surrounded with and then just work with…

Bless Up

Emitty
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Its Not Permanent

Ever plan to do something and when in the process of doing it nothing is moving, have you ever had that one perfect plan laid out for you in your head and in turn to perfect it still doesn’t go through ?

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I know you have taken series of exams, test, assignment and more papers that were all done in a certain hall.

Few days back I went to my status and posted “what is the name you give to the place you did the exams?
The answers were restless and they were super amazing but also I learnt something…

What I wanna share to you is that in life everything is like an exam you are given a set of exams and boom your in a cage that is given to you a worker is given that work as an exam and the workplace is the hall that is given.  a driver is given an exams to drive without accident and reach the destination and the car is the hall where exams are done.

Now i know you have got this pictured but add this to your imagination its not the hall but its the exams that you have done. We have to learn that not all exams are the same but know that you can be in the same hall with your neighbor. And still the neighbor could be of no help, so in life you have to see that when you are in a situation you have to own it, it’s yours and there is no a Better way to fight it if you don’t take the initiative to fight it. Never complain when you don’t get help because each person has his ot her own exams to answer, challenge to react too.

The challenges you face in the exams  are the same as the ones that you fae in reality, the exams were designed to offer you a glimpse of what to expect in the real world. The fact you can panic and also fail to do anything in  the exam room is the same as what you can do in real life, when trouble hits and hits you bad its not time to panic nor stuck as a paralysed person you should collect your self, settle down and gather strength because its all that you gat the exams (challenges ).

With time involved everything else is temporary

David Benedict Zumbo

In life every situation you see is not permanent so lets not waste time thinking of a temporary situation but be of attention to it and learn what lesson it holds …

Bless up

Emitty…

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Sweep In…

Good day to you.  hope this finds you well, after what the world is going through i hope you are holding up good. in times like this is at when our faith and stability is tested be strong and keep the faith up…

This morning after along time at home without doing anything i decided to go outside the yard and try sweeping it up. I know that we all have once or very often sweep the yards

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What I have come to notice is that you can have a portion of yard that is yours and the other can be your neighbors portion and all can be dirty. we can take this act in two portions from the single side view and the other is multiple side view.

SINGLE SIDE VIEW
This view I want you to imagine as the  fallen grass and other waste as the objects that hinders your smile and happiness the baggage that you carry that hinders you to be seen as the real you. sweeping them makes you nourish and grow as the way it should be. Here am talking about the aftermath after the sweep nevertheless take consideration the tools that are used to sweep ( it can be friends and hobbies that keeps up to make sure your form goes back into place, in terms of friends they are ready to sacrifice there wellbeing as the sweep gets worn out just to make sure you’re clean and keep on nourished. This is a great sacrifice and you should acknowledge them because they are always there and ready to sweep you over and over again.  

MULTIPLE SIDE VIEW
The tools (friends that sweep you up when you are full of grudge and other baggages that life throws at you they are there ) just ready to sweep your portion but remember your yard once swept will be clean and the difference between your yard and the next yard close to you will be seen. What am implying is that you were in a situation that you were helped by a friend now its your time not to take their sacrifices for GRANTED  but cherish and you be a sweeping Brush to your neighbor. Never be satisfied just because you’re out of your baggage that doesn’t mean your neighbor should stay that way too..

All in all life is just life and you can’t sweep all the yards out there and also people around you wont be able to sweep all your fallen grasses on you but when you get few people that makes or even just start sweeping you should stand up and be of help to. Help not only to your self but also to the people around you. .

bless up
Emitty…

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The Player Outside

let me run this by you real quick. Ever been in a competitive game against an opponent (friend) and you only see one way to play but then comes a person outside the game and says there are plenty of choices to go through more than the option you had ?? if not please keep staying with me so I show you the point. If yes smile and then let us proceed as I run this by you…

Most of times and i mean very often we think that in anything we face there is a way to oversee it, i don’t deny that but what am trying to say as you are going through hardship or a challenge in your life yes you may have a way to oversee it but there is always a new view or side view to it that a person that’s not facing the same challenge can see and offer a lot of possible ways to go through the box that you are in ..

Life can be a game and as most of us may take the game not seriously and i am here to ask you to change the serious perception of life and let it be a source for you to learn and move forward without a fuss ..

how can this be achieved? well i believe first we should lower our pride and accept the fact that there is always an easy way to do things and more effective also that sometimes our way of doing things are less effective and we don’t know everything. I firmly believe that when we drop our pride and just take a turn and start listening to people around this game we call life, get involved with people who offer help we will learn a lot and face the challenge we have in a tonne of solutions.

Also giving the room for the saying of thinking outside the box sink in. we all sometimes think that when we are in a game we are suppose to focus inside and give it our hundred to it, well life is a game and I really think in our game that is Life we should give room for us to pause focusing inside the box and then allow ourselves to take few steps back and then just thinking of the box…

There is a saying that states that it’s easy to talk to strangers than family, meaning that we open up easily to people that have no ties to us because we feel that we won’t be judged and I can say most of our relationship die not because love is not present but there is judgement. am not here to talk about either relationships or judgement for am not experienced. But am here to tell you all about the impact of socialization when we open up to a person its easy to get help because some people outside may be able to think outside the box.

In the end am a firm believer that all of our problems are solved but its not a must to be solved by ourselves but when we open the door to external help there is a guarantee that our problems will be solved and yes there will be criticism but what is critics behind a troublesome problem? take the leap of faith and trust that most of our problems are solved when shared…

And through drug addict the meeting that they have been proven that at a range of 78-88% that helps a lot of people this is because you are not alone passing that problem out there, there are people who have already passed it and some already have the way out. so we just have to listen.

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The Greatest weapon


I believe that everybody possesses a weapon or an object of self-defense, whether it’s used for protection, or maybe just to intimidate others or for any other reason. Commonly, these weapons are physical, meaning they are seen by the naked eye, and others are non-physical like words, they can be used as a weapon too, depending on the time and place.
Let’s take a stroll down memory lane, back in the second world war, a certain powerful country produced and tested the first nuclear bomb, this revolutionary yet deadly discovery made them feel powerful, a few decades back guns were invented, which later on became modified into small handguns, pistols, rifles of which people possessing these weapons felt safe, protected but most of all they felt ,powerful just because of possessing these deadly weapons.
But let’s take a pause from history and destruction, and let’s think! These weapons were made by the hands, and with the help of advanced technology, but what was the base? What was the source of such powerful inventions? It’s obvious, THE MIND!
The mind is a powerful weapon, in a matter of fact, the mind is the most powerful weapon on earth, and I will tell you why?
Take a look at all the revolutionary discoveries and innovations, the greatest of all time, they all have one common source, a GREAT MIND! What made these minds so great, so different from the rest of the other common minds in the world?! The difference is that these “great minds” could see what the eyes couldn’t, these minds could generate ideas, theories out of obstacles and questions, that other normal minds couldn’t tackle, these minds had dreams, but most importantly all the great minds had IMAGINATION. Over the years science fiction has bestowed upon us films whose stories are based on fictional theories, and things that seem impossible to the human mind, but I have always argued that it really isn’t impossible, rather it ‘seems’ impossible because we have trapped our minds in these possibility cages and self-imposed limits, and we won’t let them out because we think we are too sane to have even a little imagination, plus we don’t want to have a hard time thinking more than we usually do!
Albert Einstein once said that to be a great scientist or inventor, one has to have Imagination. What he meant was, if your Mind can’t imagine, it can’t generate ideas, automatically it can’t CREATE. Our minds were meant to be used for a greater purpose than just score good grades in class, they were made for more than just memorizing first lineups of major soccer teams, or long lists for groceries. Our minds were meant to be used for thinking outside the cages of possibility, our minds were meant to see the physically unseen, and create something out of it, that is how our minds can become WEAPONS.
Look, Benjamin franklin saw electricity out of lightning, while the rest of the world saw a blazing white light that made scary noises during storms. He saw what others couldn’t see, not with his eyes, but with his mind! (The mind can see). Let’s look at another great mind, Thomas Edison! when other folks in the year 1879 were busy wasting liters of oil on disposable lamps, which still produced soot, dangerous to the human lungs, he imagined a “soot-free” light source, one that wasn’t going to waste all those precious liters of oil, and after a few months of thinking and applying those ideas in handwork, he managed to invent the first light bulb!
If that still doesn’t prove my point, let’s take a look at the wright brothers, or as famously known; “the first humans to fly, successfully”. Ok, I agree with what you are thinking, they weren’t the first people to think about flight, they weren’t the first to attempt flight either. But they are the ones who trusted their minds long enough to get the desired results. Let me tell you this, when they first started, everybody thought they were insane, they thought that it would end up failing like the rest of the inventors who preceded them, everybody thought averagely on it, so obviously everybody else couldn’t imagine what the wright brothers imagined.
We could talk about many great thinkers and inventors, Leonardo da Vinci, sir. Isaac newton, Galileo galilee, the list goes on and on. All of these people are proof of the fact that the mind is the greatest weapon far greater than any other on earth. Ok, let’s talk a bit about weapons, literally! Like the nuclear bomb, made and tested for the first time back in the second world war, this is probably one of the greatest tools of destruction that has ever been made on earth, as big as it sounds this massive weapon has its source from a brilliant mind, a genius named albert Einstein generated the theory of relativity, a big theory that related all the physics phenomenon, and placed it in one equation, E=MC^2. Out of his ideas, the deadliest weapon on earth was made! The world now fears the weapon, but I tell you, what is to fear is the mind that generated this weapon before it even came into life! Think of the devastating destruction and damage that was made by the bomb in the Japanese islands of Hiroshima and Nagasaki, a ten feet bomb, destroying an entire island, and leaving radioactive damage whose effect lasts to this day. Somebody used his mind beyond the limits of possibility, added a bit of imagination and vóila, the world was at its knees.
That’s the big picture here! Yes, the 9mm caliber pistol can put a hole in someone’s head and leave them lifeless, bombs can make deadly damage, and nanotechnology can make impossible science possible, but look at what the mind can do! It could reshape the universe, it can create and destroy! It can discover and innovate! Yes, I rest my case, the mind is the most powerful weapon man could ever possess. But very few of us are aware of this. Research shows that we are only capable of using up to 10% of our cerebral capacity. History tells us of very few people who managed to use more than 10% of their brain capacity, the likes of albert Einstein, Isaac newton, Leonardo da Vinci, and a few others. What makes them so different? Can’t we reach the same level?
Imagine how much more we could discover and invent and generate if we could think beyond limits, beyond the cages of possibility, if we could use imagination to create. Right now I’m imagining flying cars, teleportation machines, light-speed spaceships, and a bunch of other breakthroughs technologically, economically and so much more, I mean we could literally change the earth, the entire universe even!
But it all begins with removing all these self-imposed mental limits, if we choose to think a bit more than we usually do!
“The key to unlocking power is hidden within our heads, dig deep, find it and you will have access to the world”-J.R.luba

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Fame Vs Changes

Fame Vs Changes

When at a young age did you ever wanted to be a leader or did you want to be a game-changer? Did you imagine a position that will make you in a manner of making changes to your society? Have you ever sat down and think that

Position nor fame can grant you to make a difference… but health and the will to make a difference can.

How many are leaders and they don’t make a difference??? and how are not leaders and still make a difference ?? The ability to make a change comes from inside to the outside not outside to go inside…

Have you ever been with an idea a little spark inside of you that you know straight up when you offer them out to the general public there will be an impact made and through your idea many more can be inspired ??

Now did you do it or hesitated ? if you did that’s great if you didn’t what happened ? why did you hesitate ?

Was the fact that you are not a leader and you are not influential, was it ??

Most of us we think that position or influence is the key to make changes or difference but they are accelerators to make changes but in reality, it’s not. You don’t need the power to make a change you need the right reasons.

One wise person was once asked what will he need to be the change and make the difference that he wants to see in the society and he did not respond with leadership, but he said ” I only pray for health” the man knows and its a time for us to know to that we need only health and the will to do and be the difference we want to see around us.

For the world is awaiting the manifestation of your inborn, unseen characters let them out don’t wait to be a successful person or a leader to do so.

Bless up

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PACKAGES & PARCELS

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Ever received two packages or parcel of the same content ?? was the package packing the same one hundred percent ?

CASE ONE:
The way parcel and packages are packed. its a festive season and gifts are offered each parcel is tried to be covered as much as possible and hidden from a direct identification from the receiver of the gift..

CASE TWO:
The way receiver is anxiously awaiting for the package to be given to them. The package is well covered and sometimes we end up coming up with assumption of what is inside, but we never know whats inside…

CASE THREE:
The way we rip out the cover to reveal what’s is inside never care the packaging and the way the package was once a beautiful part of the package or gift .

Now in all the cases the first thing is that the package even if it was the same content was never and will never be 💯 percent identical this is one key factor to notice

Now parenting is a perfect illustration of the packaging and unwrapping of gifts..

To lay to rest of the three observation/cases . Here we come and see that ,

CASE ONE : THE HIDDEN FIGURE
I name it hidden figure because a child come as a gift and mostly talents and inborn gifts are hidden from the parents. no matter what how parents would like to their kids to be the won’t be able to know till the kid is born and started the process of growing ( thus why it resembles the stage of coming up with assumptions of what is inside the package)

CASE TWO: THE GET READY STAGE
named as the stage that the parents are already with the gift but cant yet open it up due to the timing, sometimes a gift is offered but the time is not yet to open it up.. This is the stage that the parents are waiting when will the kid be born. and here is where some assumption made earlier will be reduced to some simple and more clearer assumption ( its a boy or its a girl they are twins or not)

CASE THREE; THE RIPPING OF THE WRAPPER
The ripping of the cover that was covering the package is another case. ripping the cover many people just never care the cover ( unzipping your kids talent parents never care the packaging) they just remove the cover in order to just see the package and never knowing the ripping also needs carefulness …

All in all even if the process that parents nurturing a kid to reveal their inborn talent wont be the same its not up to the kids making comparisons between oneself to the other who has the same talent as oneself…

we are all raised in a way that our parents think that’s the best way possible. you were their gift and they ripped it the way they wanted. never compare yourself from any other person, don’t ever think it was your parents fault that you are like that, its God’s plan you to be like that…

Bless Up

Emitty.

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