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As He teaches

Back in my primary school I remember my grammar school teacher usually had us Energize with some opposites of words.

He would have the class stand up and pick one at random then he starts by saying you what is the opposite of this and that and you’ll earn a seat when you answer the questions

Well back then we hated it and we usually didn’t raise our hands to answer the questions hoping the teacher will get bored and run out of words to ask us. But ooh boy that man had stamina he was always on the clock and he had alot of words for us to answer

So right now I don’t use any opposite in my life or neither do i use the grammar 100% but what I know today i can reflect in alot of lessons that can be derived from the quick stand up.

Some notable guidelines to some lessons are as follow.
1. Expecting the teacher to come and ask questions. See in life we are always in a surprise mode, but so far people are in a stage they even say for the point that life has thrown so much shades on me I can’t be surprised no more. This is not that s/he has gone through it all but it’s that s/he has gone through alot . Alot people of have a hidden story to tell. And all the stories mah all have a same beginning “it was out of no were, I didn’t plan this or I didn’t plan that but it happens and till it happens like that it means that if you didn’t plan for it then you had a different plan and that the opposite happened…
2. Our response some early they raise their hands but some of us we dont. The early response are similar to the way we live our lives some opportunities are randomly popin up always but its some few that make that fast decision and others will take time to take them but others will not take the opportunities at all that’s life. We waited for the teacher but some of us had already sat down earlier…
3. Hope and expectation for him to get bored. I really dont know if this has ever hit you up, you starting feeling a little left out want to life just pass you by, feeling like you’re the only one alone in this whole life passing a certain situation and life cant Get any worse than it was. You hope life will get bored and start being nice to you? If you’re in this just know life never get bored throwing shade its just mother nature making us hard and resilient to its methods.
4. Stamina for his consistency,life will always show you consistency more and more and it will always disappoint us, so life has the teacher’s consistency to throw shades. There is a trending statement good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people that’s nature the way to build the boldness out of ourselves.
5. Answers given. Whether we were asked the first round or last every question that the teacher had asked had answers so as life no matter what you going through, nonmatter tough,easy, crazy, logical or illogical then just know, no matter what time is threw at you it has an answer..
6. Topic on the table. The teacher had always had a particular theme he used while asking a question and we would have to tune ourselves into answering the particular theme that was very easy simply because the questions were easily predictable after the theme was known. So in life trying figure what wave to flow with in times of your greatest conflict..

I was told a good teacher teaches how the real world works on his lessons without even saying so, and by reflecting this it has clearly shown me that the teacher planted something positive in the lessons he taught..

Bless up
Emitty

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The Player Outside

let me run this by you real quick. Ever been in a competitive game against an opponent (friend) and you only see one way to play but then comes a person outside the game and says there are plenty of choices to go through more than the option you had ?? if not please keep staying with me so I show you the point. If yes smile and then let us proceed as I run this by you…

Most of times and i mean very often we think that in anything we face there is a way to oversee it, i don’t deny that but what am trying to say as you are going through hardship or a challenge in your life yes you may have a way to oversee it but there is always a new view or side view to it that a person that’s not facing the same challenge can see and offer a lot of possible ways to go through the box that you are in ..

Life can be a game and as most of us may take the game not seriously and i am here to ask you to change the serious perception of life and let it be a source for you to learn and move forward without a fuss ..

how can this be achieved? well i believe first we should lower our pride and accept the fact that there is always an easy way to do things and more effective also that sometimes our way of doing things are less effective and we don’t know everything. I firmly believe that when we drop our pride and just take a turn and start listening to people around this game we call life, get involved with people who offer help we will learn a lot and face the challenge we have in a tonne of solutions.

Also giving the room for the saying of thinking outside the box sink in. we all sometimes think that when we are in a game we are suppose to focus inside and give it our hundred to it, well life is a game and I really think in our game that is Life we should give room for us to pause focusing inside the box and then allow ourselves to take few steps back and then just thinking of the box…

There is a saying that states that it’s easy to talk to strangers than family, meaning that we open up easily to people that have no ties to us because we feel that we won’t be judged and I can say most of our relationship die not because love is not present but there is judgement. am not here to talk about either relationships or judgement for am not experienced. But am here to tell you all about the impact of socialization when we open up to a person its easy to get help because some people outside may be able to think outside the box.

In the end am a firm believer that all of our problems are solved but its not a must to be solved by ourselves but when we open the door to external help there is a guarantee that our problems will be solved and yes there will be criticism but what is critics behind a troublesome problem? take the leap of faith and trust that most of our problems are solved when shared…

And through drug addict the meeting that they have been proven that at a range of 78-88% that helps a lot of people this is because you are not alone passing that problem out there, there are people who have already passed it and some already have the way out. so we just have to listen.

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