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We Are Trees II

I know you don’t care but yes i was on a bus while writing this piece and what i recall was my biology class while I was thinking of what the education that I have and how i apply it to the real world.

I recall my biology teacher came in class and started to teach about transpiration and plants ways to do regulation and the terms i remember are like osmoregulation

Now there are four seasons which are summer, winter , autumn and spring. i don’t know much about the weather and that will be geography now.

but this seasons have a specific time or period to take into effect. And during dry season the trees shades it leaves to allow it’s existence to continue.

it’s the only way that it can ensure it total survival. plant losses water through small holes by means of transpiration. blah blah science . All these learnt at school..

in times like dry season the tree shades it’s leaves complete and after while starts afresh.

All these got me thinking of our lives some times we are trees and sometimes we fail to be like trees. we hold on to people draining and undermining our ability, we hold on to toxic people. we hold on to them in the name of not destroying a friendship built for long time.

we hold on to them afraid of starting a fresh with new people. what we hold will surely be the death of us. we should understand that there people in seasons and most of the people we have are just leaves on a big tree.

For our survival we need to let some people that are merely just leaves on a tree to fall off…

what kind of people am i trying to say to you to let them off. Friends that can’t place your name in a room full of opportunity, friends that leave in moment of need, friends who hold you back from success, friend who discourages you not to reach your full potential.

summing it up trees are not told that it’s time to shade off or its time to grow again. they understand their environment and so do we, we are supposed to understand our environment we should know when to grow new friends and when to shade some old friends..

Bless Up
Emitty

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What do people say of who you are

Post author By Reena Maggy
Post date June 21, 2020
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What kind of face do people see you in

When one needs to get a job he or she gets to prepare a very good CV that will convince the employer to have them employed. Apart from the career CVs that we fight for to make them better to get our jobs we do not have to forget that we have our life CVs as well to create.

Have you ever got to ask yourself on what people say about you, talk of you, see you? What kind of face are you seen In by the people around you, society,friends,family? What kind of CV are you writing or preparing for them to talk good of ?

We struggle creating good CVs for our careers but we forget that we also need to create good CVs in our lifes too. The good Book says “it’s better a good name than a good scent”. So what name are you making, what face are you trying to show to people. Is it that one which every one gets to point fingers on you, despise you and speak.bad of you or is it that one which people get to speak good of you and get to create or make a good reputation in front and to everyone around you.

Lets take an example of you dying today, imagine yourself attending your own funeral, you get see people crying, sobbing, people in pain just bcoz you are gone. When it reaches that time when they get to start reading or saying about you, what would you like to hear, as a daughter or son, nephew or niece, husband or wife, friend, work partner, what would you want to hear from them saying of you? All this is prepared here, now right this moment with whoever you are with, the way you live with them, talk to them, help them, take them with their weaknesses,deal with them so on and so forth. This kind of CV is worth living, create one to live a good memory. Live by creating that face or name or CV to be remembered and not forgotten. You’ll still get to live after leaving.

Bless up.

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PACKAGES & PARCELS

boxes and gifts wrapped

Ever received two packages or parcel of the same content ?? was the package packing the same one hundred percent ?

CASE ONE:
The way parcel and packages are packed. its a festive season and gifts are offered each parcel is tried to be covered as much as possible and hidden from a direct identification from the receiver of the gift..

CASE TWO:
The way receiver is anxiously awaiting for the package to be given to them. The package is well covered and sometimes we end up coming up with assumption of what is inside, but we never know whats inside…

CASE THREE:
The way we rip out the cover to reveal what’s is inside never care the packaging and the way the package was once a beautiful part of the package or gift .

Now in all the cases the first thing is that the package even if it was the same content was never and will never be 💯 percent identical this is one key factor to notice

Now parenting is a perfect illustration of the packaging and unwrapping of gifts..

To lay to rest of the three observation/cases . Here we come and see that ,

CASE ONE : THE HIDDEN FIGURE
I name it hidden figure because a child come as a gift and mostly talents and inborn gifts are hidden from the parents. no matter what how parents would like to their kids to be the won’t be able to know till the kid is born and started the process of growing ( thus why it resembles the stage of coming up with assumptions of what is inside the package)

CASE TWO: THE GET READY STAGE
named as the stage that the parents are already with the gift but cant yet open it up due to the timing, sometimes a gift is offered but the time is not yet to open it up.. This is the stage that the parents are waiting when will the kid be born. and here is where some assumption made earlier will be reduced to some simple and more clearer assumption ( its a boy or its a girl they are twins or not)

CASE THREE; THE RIPPING OF THE WRAPPER
The ripping of the cover that was covering the package is another case. ripping the cover many people just never care the cover ( unzipping your kids talent parents never care the packaging) they just remove the cover in order to just see the package and never knowing the ripping also needs carefulness …

All in all even if the process that parents nurturing a kid to reveal their inborn talent wont be the same its not up to the kids making comparisons between oneself to the other who has the same talent as oneself…

we are all raised in a way that our parents think that’s the best way possible. you were their gift and they ripped it the way they wanted. never compare yourself from any other person, don’t ever think it was your parents fault that you are like that, its God’s plan you to be like that…

Bless Up

Emitty.

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