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Rough side of the paper

basically every movie that has been credited as best movie or worse movie started as from an idea then noted down on a paper and then engagement of people such as actors,directors and stunt pullers all depends on the type of movie

well life is a movie is the most common used quote,phrase in our daily life,
why is it so, this is because there ups and down in life that makes it true good to believe, hard to bear and tough even to think of it. thats life in a plain sentences.

Most writers have the tendence of writing all things down so as to have a perfect journal or piece of writing before they post, some even write with pencil so as to have it perfectly, during exams. we usually had to write rough with pencil then rub it off after we are done.

in the exams we were either given alot of plain papers, a huge booklet with plenty of papers, or some book aside
just to do the rough scripting of our work before we did submit our paper with answers.

well am not taking you back to your school days but i just want to lay a ground for what we developed as a
mindset and what is the reality. Schools offered as an understanding that we are been taught a lesson then waiting on a test to prove how we are competent or test our comprehesion on a specific topic. well we did that for over 15+ years of schooling
we get schooled in class and what was close to reality was the suprising quizes and test only.

Because so far life has been different and totally way more opposite than school, life being unfair as commented by most people is because alot of people are used to learn first and then tested after learning the lesson of which come think of it,that is a way easy way to win or ace something because you are already familiar with it,but thats not how this messed up thing called life is.

No papers for rough no grades no list of who is on the top or bottom but we are all tested differently and all these are what create or makes us our own best, no school fees of higher grades so as to get best education and better opportunities to learn, life is still the best teacher they say.
why is it so? to my own understanding this is because we are all taught by the same teacher by the reverse method teachung technique. test first then lesson later its doesnt wait to teach you first then test you first.

so for every one that you see shining and you say that life has given him/her the green side of it, just know there was a rough, dirtified pieces of paper of messing up and alot of tearing up of sheets just because s/he was offered first the rough side then later successfully passed and advanced on the green side. so just know the
challenges you are getting now are just the tests you’ve been offered and the lessons you learn will implicate what side you’ll be after attempting the test called life.

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You are kept

You wake up every morning go to work or school or anywhere that you have scheduled to go come back home have the day through, you go to bed and the next day you are up again.

Yes we always are thankful that we get to see every single new day that the Almighty brings to us.

But there’s a reason to it. There are still lots to be done or fulfilled by you and through you. From the post realize your potential there are so many things that you carrying inside you and you really need not to let them die. You got to work them for yourself for the society and God’s kingdom as well. Do not say there’s still time you better start now, do not say am still young coz there’s greatness in you

You are kept for a reason and you better use that reason to yo living for your rope is running short.

Bless up

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Upside down

Hello there, as we celebrating the beginning of the new year, I wanna talk to a person who found him or her self worthless and took a decision to live someone else’s life, to a person who thought that he/she could not fit in a certain group of people, to a person who was or is in plans to do his or her stuff but still thinking on what people gonna say about it.

Let me ask you one thing, for how long will you live your life while driven with other people’s words or views?(“like they want you be like this be like that”). You really need to put an end to this because there’s no any day that you will really feel yourself because you’ll always be living some other people’s life in a way that it never gives you a chance to excel the you.

As now you in a new year, why don’t you just start appreciating the you and just help yourself to be you and do your own things in your own way coz there was never and there will never be someone who is there to remote control your life just because they want you to live the way they want you to. It’s some sort of slavery I can say. You have your unique ways of living your life or doing your things without caring what people gonna say about you . You just need to close your ears and eyes and put a step forward to what you want to do and you’ll see how great you are and even people who wanted you to live the way they wanted you, you’ll find respect in them and you’ll get them so surprised that you leave them mouth open and they may even come to you and ask how do you do, how did you make it happen. This is your year do your things in your way, make it be an upside down magic life.

Happy New year 2021

Bless up

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Just appreciate

How many times have you tried to take your time to appreciate somebody or something even if it really didn’t touch you?

Did you know that you can uplift one’s heart by just saying a word or by just showing an appreciation to him or her?

Most of us get to do things, but sometimes we find them useless or we find them meaningless and we end up leaving them just there. But for one to gain the speed to do it again and even better, s/he just need a single word from you to just appreciate what s/he has done or is doing.

Trust me, even you who are reading this right now there are times you just need someone to appreciate what you are doing or what you have done isn’t it. To be done so feels like there’s an energy catalysed within which makes you do that thing more and even better. Just appreciate

Bless up

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No other colors ?

The black and white picture

in the earlier days, yes i Know some of you weren’t born yet the first TV’s and cameras gave a monochrome pictures or videos, also the videos had no sound in the earlier days.

The colors involved were black and white only no any other colors were able to be produced, there is a technical explanation to all that but i wont bother you with the technical hepee jeepes of the mechanism of the pictures or videos.

But the concept that i want you to have is the bright colors would acquired the white color and dark colors would acquire the black color.
this is the concept

Same applies to life we are just like the old monochrome tv, its easy to judge, react or get disappointed or dissatisfaction because we just know half of the color… a single error done by a person we term it as a point for a greater judgement and we don’t give room to ask questions.

we easily be judges and lawyers when someone has wrong us without asking questions. we never give a room for a person to say or State why s/he has done why all these ??

we all act sometimes like monochrome tv were all the darks we only see dark and not light and all the white we see only white.

sometimes even good people are bad at making good decision. and we are never perfect all hundred percent. we have some dark portion that have a white reasons but we never get a chance to represent our why’s but what people see is the dark..

learn not to settle for only whites pr blacks in your life .. learn to give yourself a chance to learn the why’s to a person’s actions…

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We have reasons…

A few weeks ago, to be precise 28th and 29th of last month that’s November, me and the team got a nomination to participate in the universities and college awards and I was just the public figure who will present the team to the judge in the category of best volunteers.

the script was simple to get into the stage present a few projects, wait on the judges if they had any inquiries or questions about the team answer them drop down wait for the winner to be announced after every other contestant have to get on the stage.

In the process of waiting my turn, I asked my colleague for a speech that I’ll present that was a day before my presentation and she sent me this wonderful speech. But this was after a few dramatic episodes of asking what language she should write the speech.

Generally, the speech was centred on why do we do volunteering? her response was beautiful.

Saturday, 28 Nov 2020 03:54 PM

As humans, we are species of togetherness. No matter how much busy the world seems today it still needs people who are willing to give what they are blessed with for the joy of others and themselves.

I have chosen to be among the giving generation. Because I choose happiness. Because Volunteering is a two way street beneficiary to both the community and the volunteers themselves.

Because Volunteering gives me a purpose in life. It makes up a part of who I am, boosting up my self esteem and confidence. Bringing me close to the people and expanding my social base.

Volunteering reminds me that no matter how odd things may be; as humans we are species of kindness and we have got two hands one for helping out the others and the second one for steadying ourselves up. (by @skylaurel)

What I want to show here isn’t my chats with my colleague but to tell you that anything you do or you have done has always had a reason and for us to do what we do that is volunteering is not that we have a lot but we know and understand the need to be loved and being acknowledged both our existence and needs.

we start small but in the long run, we want all people that are around us to give their time, love, and some portion of what their blessing to the environment around them. For we are nothing without them and they are a part of what we live for,for there is nothing we can do without them.

for a doctor needs a patient, a husband needs a wife, teachers need students and businesses need clients. Reaching out for them means creating a path for a feedback of blessing. Am not standing here to tell you to help all but help one or two because youre capable of it.

Someone cant help everyone but everyone can help someone. Join us to be the change we want to see in the community.

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Reasons to reasoning…

we walk we the philosophy that everything happens for a reason and we stick on it and generating or joining dots that all that comes after was a big picture from the action that occurred earlier.

what if not everything goes as planned and we fail getting to the bigger picture.

so does it mean even our personal failure to approach a certain task is planned ??

well am not here to judge but lets works on some smaller concept that we build our believe on everything happens for a reason, well some do but rest from the some are not happening because its planned or reason.

our ignorance on certain issues shouldn’t give us the confidence to say so.

for a car to move you need fuel and we expect that if the fuel goes low or empty the car will not move . now we mostly let the fuel empty expecting that the car to keep on running or going.

lets replace this philosophy, and the reason so is because the problems or difficulties you face it’s because someone fail to play his or her part very well..

example you get bitten by a snake that’s a problem, you got bitten you won’t say there is a reason but it was a failure of a person who once saw the snake and failed to kill it saying that its too small or it hasn’t harm me.

so you see any problem you can think of it is because of a failure of someone else and the failure was probably or most even caused by a person saying it happened for a reason.

we all are ignorant or lazy on some matters we should learn to minimize our laziness to a minimal degree and stop saying things happen for a reason .

Bless Up
Emitty

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Work out your Faith

Everyone under the sun has something that he or she believes in. Some societies believe in this and the other society believe in that, same applied to religion. Every religion has something that they believe in.

Whatever you believe in that’s Faith.

So I can simply define faith as the assurance of things to come and beyond the unseen. Why faith, why should you work out your faith? Most of us today run to be prayed for,run for prophecies that we believe and faith have in them that they will help us out and get us to somewhere better. But we forget that the faith we have is built in people, things,prophecies, prayers and so on and so forth, this makes the faith you have in you go low, forgetting that you can work out your own faith and things can get to work as they work with that faith you’ve kept over things or people. The good book says if you can only have faith as little as the mustard seed you can tell this mountain move and it moves. By saying this let me get to ask you a question how will you work out the little faith you have if you still put faith on other people to pray for you or on things or prophecies, why don’t you for once stand and say to yourself that from now on I got the authority of anything that’s around and we’ll yes of course you got the authority, you are given the authority. Instead of going to yo pastor or sheikh or whoever and ask him or her to pray for you maybe because you are sick, taking that as an example,you can just take a step and pray for yourself and have faith that it is done and you are healed. Well I don’t say that you really need not to go ask for help in prayer, you need that, I too need that, but whenever you find it not necessary for you to go and ask help from somebody to be prayed for just work your faith and see it happen. I assure you as you keep doing that from time to time and see things happen your faith will grow and grow and grow.

Bless up

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No Straight Route

Never have I ever been on planes or any other airborne machine. I speak this out of what I have heard; it might be wrong, if so be the case I agree to be corrected.

Airplanes of long routes such as those from Tanzania, Kenya and Uganda to America or any other destination you could think of tend to take many hours on air. Mostly ranging from 11- 18+ hours and this is so interesting.

These planes have routes same as to the buses on land. Sometimes it might be a one way flight or an exchange where you’ll change flights. In most cases these changes could be in Amsterdam or UAE for flights. (am i correct ?)

I know most of us are just like me, not well experienced with air borne travel but I am sure that you have experienced the bus routes. Here in Tanzania (proud being one), we have “daladalas” which have mini routes within the region.

Well; for the routes taken, let’s say from town in Arusha to kikatiti (suburb place , far from town). There are a few options to complete the route, either you take a bus from Arusha to Moshi(Costa) and drop by Kikatiti or take a mini bus(daladala) from arusha straight to katiti bus stand or two mini buses from arusha to usariver then another to katiti.

Even for us using the mini buses, we have got our own Amsterdam. What I mean is the detours before we reach our desired destinations. An example of a simple route from town to katiti an exchange of buses can range from one to three or even four cars depending on the day itself.

What am trying to bring in mind is the minibus exchange and even the airplane exchange in Amsterdam.  c, disloyal people and even betrayal on the way.

Life without struggle or hardship of any kind is not that sweet, there’s a say that no pain no Gain… meaning you can’t gain something new without working for it. When I say working I mean struggling or fighting hardship, challenges, stress, disappointments, disloyal people and even betrayal on the way to achieve it all..

So having detours from your big picture or plan will always give you the advantage of learning lessons upon lessons such that when you reach the big picture you’ll appreciate what you have…

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Hohohohoo Mask Off…

lets keep the Halloween spirit running , Happy Halloween to y’all.

lets talk history, according to history.com. Halloween is a holiday celebrated each year on October 31, and Halloween 2020 will occur on Saturday, October 31. The tradition originated with the ancient Celtic festival of Samhain, when people would light bonfires and wear costumes to ward off ghosts. In the eighth century, Pope Gregory III designated November 1 as a time to honor all saints. Soon, All Saints Day incorporated some of the traditions of Samhain. The evening before was known as All Hallows Eve, and later Halloween. Over time, Halloween evolved into a day of activities like trick-or-treating, carving jack-o-lanterns, festive gatherings, donning costumes and eating treats.

now let’s talk about masks and costumes, on a day like Halloween we dress up like some famous or some other people that had a positive or negative reputation,

on a robbery, the will put on something else, let us recall on trending series like money heist the robbers wore something to cover their faces and even other robbers wear masks to hide their identities.

for kids party we put on masks, masquerade and other costumes to make the kids happy.

now costumes and mask have played a great role in achieving many things it can be for enjoyment, amusement and even for bad deeds such as robberies and sometimes even mass killings.

some people use mask to create confidence and sometimes hide from the other people to avoid recognition.

come think of it, our lives are sometimes based on masks and costumes. you’ll say yes we put on for a good reason but what am improvising or what am saying it’s not the physical masks we put but its the PRETENCE and FAKING that we do daily inorder for people to see our version that we have decided to show them.

we fake life, pretend on emotions and sometimes imitating others, simply because we think its the right way to fit in. we long for acceptance but in the end we are dying inside for what we think is right turning not to be as what we expect.

we stay on characters while we are with people and we feed them some picture that is not real us.

Enough of the masks and costumes, lets just shade them off, be the real us. you know being you makes you comfortable and confident for anything that you’ll take or do because you are the always you. you’re familiar with you and you don’t need someone to tell you how to behave. Grow up your you is the only you needed for the world to see..

Bless Up
Emitty

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