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Speak not, burdened yes.

In life not everyone will understand you not even those close to you will understand. There some events or even activities that may seem random they just appear to pop on your side.

At this moment its not easy to identify the lessons that comes with the situation that you’re inside and boom you think like the world is not on your side.

Moments like this are always tough to handle, and it’s easy to find an anchor point a person or a place or thing just to dump all what you feel to them. I dont say it’s not fine to un- burden what you feel, but on how you unburden it and to who.

We all are living in this world that since day one has never fail to surprise us with alot of unplanned and uncoordinated events and since you are alive just know you are subjected to majanga ( tragedies will just come).

The point that am making you carrying something that is hard to be spoken to others or to entrust your neighbours with that doesn’t mean you have to go through it alone or to live with it thinking like you’re the only one with it.

When things are too heavy you are not alone and you should be careful on to how you place yourself or explain yourself from others

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Emitty

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changes Constructive thinking knowledge life mentality and mental health season

Reasons to reasoning…

we walk we the philosophy that everything happens for a reason and we stick on it and generating or joining dots that all that comes after was a big picture from the action that occurred earlier.

what if not everything goes as planned and we fail getting to the bigger picture.

so does it mean even our personal failure to approach a certain task is planned ??

well am not here to judge but lets works on some smaller concept that we build our believe on everything happens for a reason, well some do but rest from the some are not happening because its planned or reason.

our ignorance on certain issues shouldn’t give us the confidence to say so.

for a car to move you need fuel and we expect that if the fuel goes low or empty the car will not move . now we mostly let the fuel empty expecting that the car to keep on running or going.

lets replace this philosophy, and the reason so is because the problems or difficulties you face it’s because someone fail to play his or her part very well..

example you get bitten by a snake that’s a problem, you got bitten you won’t say there is a reason but it was a failure of a person who once saw the snake and failed to kill it saying that its too small or it hasn’t harm me.

so you see any problem you can think of it is because of a failure of someone else and the failure was probably or most even caused by a person saying it happened for a reason.

we all are ignorant or lazy on some matters we should learn to minimize our laziness to a minimal degree and stop saying things happen for a reason .

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Emitty

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Life, Love, Levels

There are three key points that are guaranteed to you to live a smooth life. Am not saying having a smooth life but living a smooth life.

see, many of us are not happy with how life is right now and we end blaming people not knowing we are responsible for our own lives

living a smooth life means you can still have troubles but you can live as if troubles are not part of your routine. But having a smooth life means not having troubles at all. Now what i mean is how do we live when all seems off and not in our favor.

So let me ask you this. What do you do when you face alot in your plate and don’t have courage to eat it all.

what do you do when you ask for meat and life brings you stones.

sometimes its easy to blame than to know the right purpose of the situation your facing.

Life
Life has no gender, never bias and will never be fair to those lamenting. if you think that because of the wealth that you have or the number of people you’re connected with will make life to look aside for you to have the better side of it then you ate wrong. life will never be as we imagine it to be.

love.
we have our notion on how and the what love is and how to love, who do we love . some people have put on standards to what you love and hate. not a judge but let me tell you having a smooth life means realising all the hatred you have  built in your hearts, learn to appreciate people for the positive stories and forgive the negatives but in the process of laying a room a specific distance, show them its not everyone think they can hurt you then come back to the place They previous position they left off….

Levels.
we are all equal but we got a variance in our abilities to convert time also known as time conversion, we all have 24hours a day but we use the hours differently so if you ever wanna envy someone for his or her success just know its all your mindset of approaching the concept of time conversion. you want to he successful or you want a smooth life then just examine your 24 hours what do you do with them.

All in all the key is to work on having a life that is not a burden or life that is not full of drama, know when to forgive and never carry a grudge, love people with no reason, hate none, just know you also have a shot to the top..

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Emitty …

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Constructive thinking life mentality and mental health

I speak MENtal

Every single day people are dying, i have never started my piece with a bad sentences as this. but what should i do? coat the truth with honey nooo..

people are dying from various things and reasons. but the people who are mostly dying are man. we men we are dying as chicken hitted with bird flu. though our numbers interms of population is very small almost 2.2billion in comparison to 5.6 billion for the women we are the once dying under a quick rate.

there are plenty of campaigns that ladies are invited to and they get alot of platforms to speak out about their troubles and problems and in any excessive case they get help and the burden is lifted. Meaning around the world the seminars, training and workshop concerning female issues are more than the seminars on men issues.

Ladies understand the concepts of speaking out where you think you are carrying alot. but men don’t, we do not like to talk about stuff as we carry the load ourselves

one factor of us dying fast is mental health. we are okay with seeing women seminars and stuff but we haven’t taken time us as men to seat down and we discuss what we go through.

honestly speaking we go through to much and we think holding everything to ourselves is the key to being a man. nooooooooooo

a big no we need to seat down as men and we need to share, for real we face alot. financial burden, social burden, spiritual burden, we have to spill it out.

we have to come open not to hold what we have.

let me leave it by saying this in many marriages the one who dies early is the man. but why ?? (answers next article)

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emitty

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graduate's depression mentality and mental health

The Outline

if every graduate’s head is bursted open and what’s on their mind seen it will be a catastrophe. This is because graduate’s mind is filled with frustration from the society, parents and even siblings .

The education received is just for papers and the rate of employment opportunities is growing thick.

just as the educational methods are based on triangular elimination. what i mean is the basis of it is to accumulate many students but drop them or delay them as it goes.

The number of students or colleagues you started with them in grade one is different from the ones who completed with you. Many have ended delaying to finish due to some stuff and some even drop outs.

And all in our mindsets we are trained to see employment as soon as we are done, either through connection we have or parents. we end up talking modules and courses just because our parents have studied them and have connections on it.

But the world has a funny way to prove us wrong and most of cases it hits bad and painful.

so for people with lesser options those the only option is to work they find themselves in grieve due to the process of searching for a job.

in terms of faith we exercise faith too much and it’s a good thing but we fail to understand faith without works its nothing let’s say if you have faith to pray but not to study, miracles can happen but not a miracle of you passing with flying colors am not here to downgrade the almighty powers but you should attach Faith with works .

so the point is we doing things by faith because they are just things to come ( i mean outlining goals and objectives of what we would do straight after university ) doesn’t mean we are already successful. we need to go out there and give it our one hundred.

The common mistake is that we think what will put us on the market place is what we studied. now you will be asking yourself what. after my three years or fours years of excessive studying you are telling me to drop what i have studied, No am not am just saying you have to live with the fact that not all you know is gonna put you in the market. You need to acquire some extra skills, you need to be multipurpose and multitasking.

Am opening up a serious of graduate depression and I’ll be outlining some depression i found out that can be a problem to our new adventure or venture to the next step of life.

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Emitty

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