men – Rescue The Forgotten

Pa…

Apart from today being Father’s Day, I had in me to write this article after watching “breakthrough” a movie about the powerful prayer of a parent.

Also I write this because of the nickname Baba Mzazi that I recently found myself been given.

Being a father or a Male parent is never easy neither being a mother but a father is a figure that has a different point of being viewed.

This article can’t be expressed only by a single person but since its my version. What scares me most about being a father is ?

I know time will reach and I’ll be a father, having kids is a fantastic dream but is also scary that what if the kids dont turn out the way you want? Our fathers or parents nurtured us to the way that we are right now, I’m who I’m now just because they dared to take care and nurture me through this road.

I was a kid back then and I know without a doubt that I was very stubborn growing up and reaching this level definitely I know I was stubborn. No need to be told I was. But they took care of me .

My greatest fear of becoming a father is will my kid keep my teachings, what I will tell him or her also what will I teach her or him? How can I protect my kids around this world of technology with everything you seek being available at my kid’s hand??

If this is your worries then welcome to the team, fathers to be… I haven’t figured the dad ship yet but what I know is that kids are always gonna learn from what they see their parent figure always do. How do I know that this is from me I’m here because I grabbed what my father was doing so the insecurities that comes from you taking care of the kids that you have or going to have all lies on the way you are around them.

” an apple doesn’t fall far from the apple tree.” You are your kids.

In the above statements I haven’t said that being a father is easy I just said it’s easy for kids learning from what they are exposed too.

Being a father is not a part time job or something that you do when you’re free but it’s always being there for the kid you have. Building up memories with them and in the end believing they are grownup enough to be the better version of you. So never teach a kid to be as you but better than you.

Cheers to dads in heaven
Cheers to dads in earth
Cheers to dads to be..
Happy fathers day

Bless up
Emitty

I speak MENtal

Every single day people are dying, i have never started my piece with a bad sentences as this. but what should i do? coat the truth with honey nooo..

people are dying from various things and reasons. but the people who are mostly dying are man. we men we are dying as chicken hitted with bird flu. though our numbers interms of population is very small almost 2.2billion in comparison to 5.6 billion for the women we are the once dying under a quick rate.

there are plenty of campaigns that ladies are invited to and they get alot of platforms to speak out about their troubles and problems and in any excessive case they get help and the burden is lifted. Meaning around the world the seminars, training and workshop concerning female issues are more than the seminars on men issues.

Ladies understand the concepts of speaking out where you think you are carrying alot. but men don’t, we do not like to talk about stuff as we carry the load ourselves

one factor of us dying fast is mental health. we are okay with seeing women seminars and stuff but we haven’t taken time us as men to seat down and we discuss what we go through.

honestly speaking we go through to much and we think holding everything to ourselves is the key to being a man. nooooooooooo

a big no we need to seat down as men and we need to share, for real we face alot. financial burden, social burden, spiritual burden, we have to spill it out.

we have to come open not to hold what we have.

let me leave it by saying this in many marriages the one who dies early is the man. but why ?? (answers next article)

bless up
emitty