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Speak not, burdened yes.

In life not everyone will understand you not even those close to you will understand. There some events or even activities that may seem random they just appear to pop on your side.

At this moment its not easy to identify the lessons that comes with the situation that you’re inside and boom you think like the world is not on your side.

Moments like this are always tough to handle, and it’s easy to find an anchor point a person or a place or thing just to dump all what you feel to them. I dont say it’s not fine to un- burden what you feel, but on how you unburden it and to who.

We all are living in this world that since day one has never fail to surprise us with alot of unplanned and uncoordinated events and since you are alive just know you are subjected to majanga ( tragedies will just come).

The point that am making you carrying something that is hard to be spoken to others or to entrust your neighbours with that doesn’t mean you have to go through it alone or to live with it thinking like you’re the only one with it.

When things are too heavy you are not alone and you should be careful on to how you place yourself or explain yourself from others

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Emitty

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changes Constructive thinking knowledge life life & sports mentality and mental health

Game Saves

Let me start with this meme.

” You find a kid of 2000 saying don’t judge me by my past, which past mtoto, which one ?”

We have lived, whether it’s a year, ten, fifty or more we all have a term to compare and contrast about our life.

What am trying to develop here is just to show you that every single day you have lived it has come with a new challenge. No matter what state you grow up to either wealthy or poor it doesn’t matter , y’all have a piece of new experience daily you learn and experience..

For the wealthier one, you experienced wealthier problems and experiences and same applied to the poor ones.

Now from all these it comes a question Why are you quitting now ??

You have came these far to just give up now, and one might ask or say but I didn’t sign up for this, the pain and suffering it feels like the world is failing on me , yes you are experiencing what you are right now because there are alot of events that have taken it for you to reach here. You’ve been through alot so the easiest way out it’s to do reflections .

Reflections always gives you a praiseful head, this is because you just need to make up a flashback of what you have gone through, this will help you create a stronghold or a wall to bounce back a little and in the end move forward twice..

For the gamers there is always them game saves, were they act as starting point away from the beginning of the game, this allows you to pause and continue from there towards further parts of the games.

Now reflections may act as game saves in times that you are low and feeling down and you dont have the move-in power then just hold on to reflections

Basically reflections may be as simple as just a simple way of how you got out of a tough spot or tough time in some point of your life.

Life is yours take time to power yourself on, go forward never ever turn…

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Emitty

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Life as sports.

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Ever think of life as sports? In terms of football, basket ball or netball … well come to think of it, it’s more like it.. you playing the role of a coach and sometimes even the key player yourself …

The format of playing or formation is basically the plans you layout in order to achieve your desired goals. 4-4-2 (medium effort medium stress short results ) 5-4-1(maximum effort medium stress shorter results ) 4-3-3 (medium effort minimum stress results ) its just all about format or formation of how you play with your opponent “life” as for those people who hate football or other sports in that case it’s the same way people hate life … Please bare with me. If life is a sport .. it’s up to us to decide if the game is friendly, international or championship…. Our normal routine can be our friendly matches, then our big hustle and the game changers can be championships and our new start ups can be the international matches.

Monday to Sunday routine can be our friendly match from this point of view you do normal stuff without engaging new stuff so its just a match where when you loose or win nothing changes. Championship game is like the big exams that will make you shift from grade to grade, level to another level , that big interview that will land you a job or not, the heavy decision like getting married or buying a house having kids.

In short we’re just playing and it’s all about tactics and always the best way is to gain experience. When we loose it doesn’t mean we drop the game, what we do, we retreat, regroup then replay that’s how the game goes… you want to go for a game (wanna tackle something big or great for you in life , choose your format, study your opponent and hustle enough, train to the maximum then go with your head held high and tackle your opponent .) nothing comes easy and every success is a product of a good plan, hours of training to a perfection level and never giving up attitude (persistence).

Bless up …

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