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Game Saves

Let me start with this meme.

” You find a kid of 2000 saying don’t judge me by my past, which past mtoto, which one ?”

We have lived, whether it’s a year, ten, fifty or more we all have a term to compare and contrast about our life.

What am trying to develop here is just to show you that every single day you have lived it has come with a new challenge. No matter what state you grow up to either wealthy or poor it doesn’t matter , y’all have a piece of new experience daily you learn and experience..

For the wealthier one, you experienced wealthier problems and experiences and same applied to the poor ones.

Now from all these it comes a question Why are you quitting now ??

You have came these far to just give up now, and one might ask or say but I didn’t sign up for this, the pain and suffering it feels like the world is failing on me , yes you are experiencing what you are right now because there are alot of events that have taken it for you to reach here. You’ve been through alot so the easiest way out it’s to do reflections .

Reflections always gives you a praiseful head, this is because you just need to make up a flashback of what you have gone through, this will help you create a stronghold or a wall to bounce back a little and in the end move forward twice..

For the gamers there is always them game saves, were they act as starting point away from the beginning of the game, this allows you to pause and continue from there towards further parts of the games.

Now reflections may act as game saves in times that you are low and feeling down and you dont have the move-in power then just hold on to reflections

Basically reflections may be as simple as just a simple way of how you got out of a tough spot or tough time in some point of your life.

Life is yours take time to power yourself on, go forward never ever turn…

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Emitty

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Mind Block

The pass few weeks have been in a state called writer’s block.

imagine it has when you drive or ride a car and you come to a dead end, or a point that you can’t go forward as the way you were going or think you would go.

so by definition given by Google, hehehe writers block is a condition, primarily associated with writing
in which an author loses the ability to produce new work or experiences a creative slowdown. This loss of ability to write and produce new work is not a result of commitment problems or the lack of writing skills. The condition ranges from difficulty in coming up with original ideas to being unable to produce a work for years. Writer’s block is not solely measured by time passing without writing. It is measured by time passing without productivity in the task at hand.

I’ve been falling to this situation not once not twice but more times than i remember and the funny part is that this is not a disease but its a mental state, its all in the head.

I’ve been having titles to many articles and even some of them writings half a paragraph then stuck but others only a single word, which it always works when i have noted down a single word ideas falls through and i start writing down but when in WB I mostly find myself staring at my notepad with no words to write down..

what i wanna show you is in the backstage to all our articles they lay alot of unpublished articles.

Some few times i usually pick my kid brother from school and in his school they have this tap where they drink the water, as i was taking him off school to home i felt thirsty and decided to go drink some water in found a very long line so i decided to join it and off it started to move slowly till it was my turn. as i was moving along it opened my eyes as if the people in front of me and behind me they were all unfinished projects.

they’re unfinished projects until the primary goal of drinking water has been completed, the line showed me i was that all projects were leading to the same goal so i should learn to make them move one at a time and also see them through one at a time not to hesitate. and if it reaches to a point that i should pile them up pile em in a manner that you can work them out to the end to the end.

See in life we come into deadblocks because of just piling alot of things in our plates thinking that its easy to just place them some where but in the end we have alot to handle all because of piling them up.

learn to regulate what is on your plate as what comes in your mind and execute on thing to the end never be fast to procrastinate what you have in your mind.

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Emitty

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Constructive thinking life mentality and mental health

I speak MENtal

Every single day people are dying, i have never started my piece with a bad sentences as this. but what should i do? coat the truth with honey nooo..

people are dying from various things and reasons. but the people who are mostly dying are man. we men we are dying as chicken hitted with bird flu. though our numbers interms of population is very small almost 2.2billion in comparison to 5.6 billion for the women we are the once dying under a quick rate.

there are plenty of campaigns that ladies are invited to and they get alot of platforms to speak out about their troubles and problems and in any excessive case they get help and the burden is lifted. Meaning around the world the seminars, training and workshop concerning female issues are more than the seminars on men issues.

Ladies understand the concepts of speaking out where you think you are carrying alot. but men don’t, we do not like to talk about stuff as we carry the load ourselves

one factor of us dying fast is mental health. we are okay with seeing women seminars and stuff but we haven’t taken time us as men to seat down and we discuss what we go through.

honestly speaking we go through to much and we think holding everything to ourselves is the key to being a man. nooooooooooo

a big no we need to seat down as men and we need to share, for real we face alot. financial burden, social burden, spiritual burden, we have to spill it out.

we have to come open not to hold what we have.

let me leave it by saying this in many marriages the one who dies early is the man. but why ?? (answers next article)

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emitty

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Constructive thinking graduate's depression knowledge life mentality and mental health

The Beginning

well let’s take it from the start with a simple scenario based on true story.

growing up is never been and will never be easy. we all have some stories of growth and all these stories shapes us into what we are right now.

we were raised either to work by fear or delegating work thinking we are able to do so. formation of classes started here people who are scared to make moves thinking they cant due to fear and another class of ruthless 

we grew up not knowing what to do what if our ideas were listened and taken to consideration, so we created a wall that’s fear of rejection, we won’t make a move because we are scared to be turned down. We were trained that we only have to listen to people who are older to us.

with even advancement of technology we trying to cope with it, will be noted as hooliganism, moral degraded and visionless teen. this has created a wall of anticipation, we see all chances offered are scams and aint aiming for us to take them.

we grow up socializing, making bonds with people and we do things together thinking it will always be like that, but it doesn’t appear that way we create comfort in people while we in school not knowing that we won’t stuck with them always  after school or college we are left alone. Mob isn’t a team, its a temporary gathering that has come into place for a short period of time.

depression can’t be caused suddenly but it’s built slowly slowly as time goes. i can’t treat depression but you can always share whats bothering you. stop piling what’s in your heart..

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Emitty

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graduate's depression mentality and mental health

The Outline

if every graduate’s head is bursted open and what’s on their mind seen it will be a catastrophe. This is because graduate’s mind is filled with frustration from the society, parents and even siblings .

The education received is just for papers and the rate of employment opportunities is growing thick.

just as the educational methods are based on triangular elimination. what i mean is the basis of it is to accumulate many students but drop them or delay them as it goes.

The number of students or colleagues you started with them in grade one is different from the ones who completed with you. Many have ended delaying to finish due to some stuff and some even drop outs.

And all in our mindsets we are trained to see employment as soon as we are done, either through connection we have or parents. we end up talking modules and courses just because our parents have studied them and have connections on it.

But the world has a funny way to prove us wrong and most of cases it hits bad and painful.

so for people with lesser options those the only option is to work they find themselves in grieve due to the process of searching for a job.

in terms of faith we exercise faith too much and it’s a good thing but we fail to understand faith without works its nothing let’s say if you have faith to pray but not to study, miracles can happen but not a miracle of you passing with flying colors am not here to downgrade the almighty powers but you should attach Faith with works .

so the point is we doing things by faith because they are just things to come ( i mean outlining goals and objectives of what we would do straight after university ) doesn’t mean we are already successful. we need to go out there and give it our one hundred.

The common mistake is that we think what will put us on the market place is what we studied. now you will be asking yourself what. after my three years or fours years of excessive studying you are telling me to drop what i have studied, No am not am just saying you have to live with the fact that not all you know is gonna put you in the market. You need to acquire some extra skills, you need to be multipurpose and multitasking.

Am opening up a serious of graduate depression and I’ll be outlining some depression i found out that can be a problem to our new adventure or venture to the next step of life.

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Emitty

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