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Chillax,Graduate. (Parte II)

We live in a world were everything is memelized, a world were everyone is a meme lord or meme queen, it’s not a bad thing. So why am i bringing this to your attention.

It fits the illustrations for parte II of the 2021 graduate depression, some memes are funny but explain everything in plain language and fewer words. I wish I could show you all memes have seen but just take a few.

One in a particular occasion if I remember said relax life is too short to commit suicide we all die. With relation to graduate depression, it’s very easy for a graduate nowadays to run to commit suicide just because of impatience.

We seek instant gratification, some memes show some skeletons and it will be seen written at age of 25 a graduate places himself/herself stating I will have a job, and house with a car, while the skeletons playing the role of ancestors. ( I recalled the story of the old man and the bamboo tree plantation that took 5years to just come out of the ground.)

What makes us depressed is hoping or finishing school and hopping everything falls in place just as we get out, to some it does happen like that but a larger number it doesn’t come out like that..

What also makes us depressed is too much thinking of what tomorrow holds ” nothing eats us more than think of tomorrow, the thinking of tomorrow is fine but overthinking robs us of the present.” Most of graduates end up messing up the last semester because their minds are all set for the end but they forget that they can’t have tomorrow perfectly if they dont have a best today…

It’s not a meme but I was in class somedays back and the lecturer was teaching on the multimedia technologies team, where he said there many people that are always involved in the production of some things, eg movies and even animations.

A student raised a voice and said what is wrong with our side, multimedia products why are they so poor in production is it the team problem.

The lecturer answered the point is and will always be the same reasons across our nation, we seek instant gratification over quality work we find want to be in the market with alot of poor works instead of having a perfect work speaking and branding us. The works are alot in the market but they just shout nothing to offer

He continued by saying why do we eat ugali, rice and boiled vegetables its because we hate waiting and the habit has brought us impatience that it’s either we can’t see something through or we fast forward it.

Its always been the logical universal rule, good things takes time . If you fail to enjoy the process you are doomed to depress over slow motion of your progress.

Coming up next on part III: Comparison, company and tolerance

Part II
Bless up
Emitty

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life & sports

Life as sports.

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Ever think of life as sports? In terms of football, basket ball or netball … well come to think of it, it’s more like it.. you playing the role of a coach and sometimes even the key player yourself …

The format of playing or formation is basically the plans you layout in order to achieve your desired goals. 4-4-2 (medium effort medium stress short results ) 5-4-1(maximum effort medium stress shorter results ) 4-3-3 (medium effort minimum stress results ) its just all about format or formation of how you play with your opponent “life” as for those people who hate football or other sports in that case it’s the same way people hate life … Please bare with me. If life is a sport .. it’s up to us to decide if the game is friendly, international or championship…. Our normal routine can be our friendly matches, then our big hustle and the game changers can be championships and our new start ups can be the international matches.

Monday to Sunday routine can be our friendly match from this point of view you do normal stuff without engaging new stuff so its just a match where when you loose or win nothing changes. Championship game is like the big exams that will make you shift from grade to grade, level to another level , that big interview that will land you a job or not, the heavy decision like getting married or buying a house having kids.

In short we’re just playing and it’s all about tactics and always the best way is to gain experience. When we loose it doesn’t mean we drop the game, what we do, we retreat, regroup then replay that’s how the game goes… you want to go for a game (wanna tackle something big or great for you in life , choose your format, study your opponent and hustle enough, train to the maximum then go with your head held high and tackle your opponent .) nothing comes easy and every success is a product of a good plan, hours of training to a perfection level and never giving up attitude (persistence).

Bless up …

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