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Its Not Permanent

Ever plan to do something and when in the process of doing it nothing is moving, have you ever had that one perfect plan laid out for you in your head and in turn to perfect it still doesn’t go through ?

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I know you have taken series of exams, test, assignment and more papers that were all done in a certain hall.

Few days back I went to my status and posted “what is the name you give to the place you did the exams?
The answers were restless and they were super amazing but also I learnt something…

What I wanna share to you is that in life everything is like an exam you are given a set of exams and boom your in a cage that is given to you a worker is given that work as an exam and the workplace is the hall that is given. a driver is given an exams to drive without accident and reach the destination and the car is the hall where exams are done.

Now i know you have got this pictured but add this to your imagination its not the hall but its the exams that you have done. We have to learn that not all exams are the same but know that you can be in the same hall with your neighbor. And still the neighbor could be of no help, so in life you have to see that when you are in a situation you have to own it, it’s yours and there is no a Better way to fight it if you don’t take the initiative to fight it. Never complain when you don’t get help because each person has his ot her own exams to answer, challenge to react too.

The challenges you face in the exams are the same as the ones that you fae in reality, the exams were designed to offer you a glimpse of what to expect in the real world. The fact you can panic and also fail to do anything in the exam room is the same as what you can do in real life, when trouble hits and hits you bad its not time to panic nor stuck as a paralysed person you should collect your self, settle down and gather strength because its all that you gat the exams (challenges ).

With time involved everything else is temporary
David Benedict Zumbo

In life every situation you see is not permanent so lets not waste time thinking of a temporary situation but be of attention to it and learn what lesson it holds …

Bless up
Emitty…

Tags Awareness, bless up, challenges, development, guts, hope, life, path, process, social development, time, Will, zerotohero

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Sweep In…

Good day to you. hope this finds you well, after what the world is going through i hope you are holding up good. in times like this is at when our faith and stability is tested be strong and keep the faith up…

This morning after along time at home without doing anything i decided to go outside the yard and try sweeping it up. I know that we all have once or very often sweep the yards

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What I have come to notice is that you can have a portion of yard that is yours and the other can be your neighbors portion and all can be dirty. we can take this act in two portions from the single side view and the other is multiple side view.

SINGLE SIDE VIEW
This view I want you to imagine as the fallen grass and other waste as the objects that hinders your smile and happiness the baggage that you carry that hinders you to be seen as the real you. sweeping them makes you nourish and grow as the way it should be. Here am talking about the aftermath after the sweep nevertheless take consideration the tools that are used to sweep ( it can be friends and hobbies that keeps up to make sure your form goes back into place, in terms of friends they are ready to sacrifice there wellbeing as the sweep gets worn out just to make sure you’re clean and keep on nourished. This is a great sacrifice and you should acknowledge them because they are always there and ready to sweep you over and over again.

MULTIPLE SIDE VIEW
The tools (friends that sweep you up when you are full of grudge and other baggages that life throws at you they are there ) just ready to sweep your portion but remember your yard once swept will be clean and the difference between your yard and the next yard close to you will be seen. What am implying is that you were in a situation that you were helped by a friend now its your time not to take their sacrifices for GRANTED but cherish and you be a sweeping Brush to your neighbor. Never be satisfied just because you’re out of your baggage that doesn’t mean your neighbor should stay that way too..

All in all life is just life and you can’t sweep all the yards out there and also people around you wont be able to sweep all your fallen grasses on you but when you get few people that makes or even just start sweeping you should stand up and be of help to. Help not only to your self but also to the people around you. .

bless up
Emitty…

Tags attitude, challenges, change, changes, choices, fame, growth, life, process, Will

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Fame Vs Changes

Fame Vs Changes

When at a young age did you ever wanted to be a leader or did you want to be a game-changer? Did you imagine a position that will make you in a manner of making changes to your society? Have you ever sat down and think that

Position nor fame can grant you to make a difference… but health and the will to make a difference can.

How many are leaders and they don’t make a difference??? and how are not leaders and still make a difference ?? The ability to make a change comes from inside to the outside not outside to go inside…

Have you ever been with an idea a little spark inside of you that you know straight up when you offer them out to the general public there will be an impact made and through your idea many more can be inspired ??

Now did you do it or hesitated ? if you did that’s great if you didn’t what happened ? why did you hesitate ?

Was the fact that you are not a leader and you are not influential, was it ??

Most of us we think that position or influence is the key to make changes or difference but they are accelerators to make changes but in reality, it’s not. You don’t need the power to make a change you need the right reasons.

One wise person was once asked what will he need to be the change and make the difference that he wants to see in the society and he did not respond with leadership, but he said ” I only pray for health” the man knows and its a time for us to know to that we need only health and the will to do and be the difference we want to see around us.

For the world is awaiting the manifestation of your inborn, unseen characters let them out don’t wait to be a successful person or a leader to do so.

Bless up

Tags changes, fame, game-changer, life, Will

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Festive Season

Merry Christmas is the most trending text sent all over the globe since its the festive season. A matter of fact MERRY CHRISTMAS to you reading this post hope you enjoy this day, after the Merry Christmas it will come Happy New Year definitely.

But the Question comes what is new or what is happy for this Christmas and the coming year, while there is nothing that we have change its just as same as last year Christmas, we fail to look for the ones that need our help, time, love and support and we lock up ourselves and just eat and enjoy. Don’t quote me wrongly eating and getting some lone time is good but we should be considerate for the ones out the streets that a constantly searching for food and shelter. I know some say the government will help but the government has a lot of stuffs in their own plate and cant reach all of them

I call upon all individual to take up to this request to care for the less privilege and offer their support not only this Christmas but also other normal days the non festive days. All changes we wanna see in the world starts with us taking the small changes daily and removing the daily routine ignorance of ungodly doing

Merry Christmas but make it a different Christmas to remember, be a santa to someone that is in need.

Bless Up

Emitty

Tags changes, Christmas, days, development, festivity, growth, hope, love, merry christmass, try

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PACKAGES & PARCELS

boxes and gifts wrapped

Ever received two packages or parcel of the same content ?? was the package packing the same one hundred percent ?

CASE ONE:
The way parcel and packages are packed. its a festive season and gifts are offered each parcel is tried to be covered as much as possible and hidden from a direct identification from the receiver of the gift..

CASE TWO:
The way receiver is anxiously awaiting for the package to be given to them. The package is well covered and sometimes we end up coming up with assumption of what is inside, but we never know whats inside…

CASE THREE:
The way we rip out the cover to reveal what’s is inside never care the packaging and the way the package was once a beautiful part of the package or gift .

Now in all the cases the first thing is that the package even if it was the same content was never and will never be 💯 percent identical this is one key factor to notice

Now parenting is a perfect illustration of the packaging and unwrapping of gifts..

To lay to rest of the three observation/cases . Here we come and see that ,

CASE ONE : THE HIDDEN FIGURE
I name it hidden figure because a child come as a gift and mostly talents and inborn gifts are hidden from the parents. no matter what how parents would like to their kids to be the won’t be able to know till the kid is born and started the process of growing ( thus why it resembles the stage of coming up with assumptions of what is inside the package)

CASE TWO: THE GET READY STAGE
named as the stage that the parents are already with the gift but cant yet open it up due to the timing, sometimes a gift is offered but the time is not yet to open it up.. This is the stage that the parents are waiting when will the kid be born. and here is where some assumption made earlier will be reduced to some simple and more clearer assumption ( its a boy or its a girl they are twins or not)

CASE THREE; THE RIPPING OF THE WRAPPER
The ripping of the cover that was covering the package is another case. ripping the cover many people just never care the cover ( unzipping your kids talent parents never care the packaging) they just remove the cover in order to just see the package and never knowing the ripping also needs carefulness …

All in all even if the process that parents nurturing a kid to reveal their inborn talent wont be the same its not up to the kids making comparisons between oneself to the other who has the same talent as oneself…

we are all raised in a way that our parents think that’s the best way possible. you were their gift and they ripped it the way they wanted. never compare yourself from any other person, don’t ever think it was your parents fault that you are like that, its God’s plan you to be like that…

Bless Up

Emitty.

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Opposite Sides…

Every one has a path to go through alone…

Have you ever gone to a place where you know the location partially and all the odd of getting lost are 1 to nil of getting there.

You hook yourself up with Google map and still you fail to get the right location. Ask for directions and many ways to get there and yet fail.

In this state is where you can try going any way that your guts tells you to go. Go left you go left, Go right you go left without hesitation or with lesser hesitation and if you get lost you go back to the junction you made the wrong turn and go opposite…

Now that’s a very vivid illustration that brings us to the following questions…

We make friends and the friends made are very great of an influence to our decision.

I know you know where am going with this. why don’t we follow our guts and just go the opposite way even if it doesn’t add up. why should follow somebody else’s direction ?

How many times have you got lost in your way, its much better to get lost in your way rather than getting lost in someone else way..

Our guts never gets us lost. follow your path.. Everyone has that one path you should go through alone.
Never allow anyone to chose your path…

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