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A Stair Higher

Have you ever climbed stairs?

Have you ever experienced pain on the first or second step?

So from the two questions to ponder we can get the concept of pain and next or another level. If you have climbed stairs which is a common thing to anyone to do, we got buildings and places that requires us to get on top just by the use of staircases and these places can be flyovers, classes in our college premises, houses, shopping malls and even churches.

The stairs are sometimes used as a form of obstacle in training.

We’ve been through a series of classes where it involved us staying in that class for a particular time then we do a test or a terminal exam that will reveal how much we’ve learned throughout the period that we’ve been in the particular grade or class. Here there is a preschool where there are several classes such as baby class, kindergarten, pre-unit then followed by grade classes from grade I to grade VII, where the period is called primary school level, followed by ordinary level and then advanced level and so forth and so forth.

Am not trying to do a Thursday throwback or Friday flashback but i want to build my message theme from these two concepts, staircase theory and grade systems theory.

Both are similar just because they all have a starting point and have a destination, where they all end. They also support elevation as they elevate a person no matter the weight from lower grounds. Anyone in one higher level has a clear view from the top view of the bottom or previous level.

A mathematics equation of grade three to a third grader may seem hard but the same equation to the fourth and fifth grader is never a problem to them. Why? Because they have experienced it.

Experience is a very funny thing my friend once said. When you are experiencing something you see it hard, it feels impossible. But the moment you have done its easy to redo the same task that was hard for the first time.

Life is like a never-ending rollercoaster when you think you are at the top of the ride then you think it’s downhill from here, you see uneven bigger height/top-up ahead waiting to go up it.

Homie of mine .

Now on coming to the fact of pain and levels, they are co-relating to some instance, it’s easy to conclude and give up when you face a new challenge for the first time. When we in classes that had national exams the first thing that came to mind was giving up and in some times we got mixed up with mixed feelings of we are not enough and we can’t make it through, we literally created psychological pains to ourselves due to the new challenge that we haven’t turned them to experience yet.

Then after we have passed the exams we got a certain relief and we gained a momentum and the inside of how to be in pressure of performing.

In life, we get caught up with challenges in the first encounter and some thoughts that hinder us from getting over them take over and we just stuck in creating hopeless decisions. We are basically prohibiting ourselves from taking a step over.

The first steps ain’t painful simply because we have some people in higher stairs pulling us. Walking on our own, taking first steps – the baby steps are not a challenge just because we have parents watching over us. But as we advance by ourselves we start seeing challenges as hard as they have never been, by this time we need to know two things we have people who have already climbed the same stairs as we are at the moment and also keep on climbing.

One step done doesn’t mean it is over it means a new challenge unlocked in the next step and a new experience learned from a previous challenge. Never think of giving up, we hustle knowing that its just a step we need to raise our standard of thinking and just climb and aim higher

Bless Up

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Pay It Foward

Reflection.
Do good and the good will come back to you.

One day a mother and her son were having good time together, suddenly the mother started coughing and having a hard time in breathing, the son knew what she was suffering from (Asthma) but did not know how to help his mother because she had no any inhaler with her. The boy got out and went to a pharmacy so that he could help his mother get an inhaler. He reached there and found himself with no money. Remembering his mother’s situation back home he was not left with choice but to steal one of the inhalers that were being sold in that pharmacy. The seller saw him stealing and started chasing him, when they were out in a Chase the seller finally caught him in a corner and banged him on a wall so hard, he started questioning him, the kid knowing his mother’s condition tried fighting back. Then appeared a woman and asked what’s the chaos all about and the seller said that the kid stole an inhaler from his pharmacy and the kid replied I have no money I’m just trying to help my mom she’s sick, she’s dying. That woman looked at the kid and asked the seller how much the inhaler cost, the seller told her the amount. The woman dug into her purse and gave out the amount that was mentioned and the seller left. The kid was so surprised by the action that the woman did and he had to ask her “you do not know me neither have we met before,why did you help me?”. The woman looked at the kid and gave him a piece of paper and told him go help your mother. When he reached home, he gave his mother the inhaler and the mother got saved from the situation. The kid went in his room and opened that piece of paper and he saw these words PAY IT FORWARD.

Years passed and the kid grew up into a doctor. One day a patient came and had no enough money to pay for the treatments. The one attending to the patient told her that “we can’t help you so you just go back and look for somebody who can give the help”. Over a sudden that kid (currently the doctor) came inside that very room and told the one attending the patient “I’ll be in charge of everything just leave it all to me”. The patient was then helped,given a room and a bed to sleep so as she could be treated. After a while the doctor(kid) went inside the room where the patient lied and asked about her wellbeing. She was so thankful for what the doctor did to her. But she was in a doubt and had to ask why did you help me? The doctor smiled and took a paper from his coat and gave it to the woman it was written “PAY IT FORWARD”.

This woman was the very same lady who helped the doctor the other day back in time.

What you reap is what you sow. Just as the Newton’s third law state “For every action there is an equal but opposite reaction”. Just do good and the good will definitely come back to you.

Bless up.

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Realise your potential

what you carry is just like a seed

Have you ever asked yourself what is it that you have inside you, what is it that you are to work for to reveal the you?

Let me tell you. Inside each and everyone of us there is what’s called potential. One can ask what is potential? I can define potential as unexposed ability,reserved power,untapped strength,called capabilities,unused successs,dormant gifts,hidden talents,latent power and however you can define it.

Now a potential is just like a seed. A seed can not be productive unless it germinates to something of its own, grow,produce flowers and then fruits. Potential is similar, it can not be seen unless it is tapped, unless it’s used. Most of us fail in life just because we fail to know what we have within us. These are the riches given to us to use them and not just to pile up in us and stay as decorations. We have to use them fully so as in the end we get to die empty. Most of people whom we’ve buried, we’ve buried riches with them, they did not die empty just because they couldn’t use their potentials to the fullest. Got one example from the Good book that can tell well about potential. This example is about the Israelites and Moses, they were to Cross the red Sea, but they couldn not cross it because there was no way passed through the sea. Moses had a stick with him and it was by the stick the Israelites crossed the red Sea after a strike of the stick on the waters. This stick is the potential, the splitting of the waters is sign of success. One more thing these potentials are kept in us not just for ourselves but for the people out there. Using them brings a great impact to the people around and not using them is like killing your own self.

One more thing that we have to know, in every seed there are more of it’s kind. For example an apple seed when planted grows to an apple tree,produces apple fruits carrying the apple seeds inside, the seeds are taken and get to be planted again and the circle continues….know that in every tree there’s a forest,in every fish there’s a school,in every boy there’s a man, in every girl there is a woman, and in every man there is a nation. Get to know your potential and utilize it to the fullest for the rope you have is running short. Do your best to die empty and to live after leaving.

Bless up.

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Its Not Permanent

Ever plan to do something and when in the process of doing it nothing is moving, have you ever had that one perfect plan laid out for you in your head and in turn to perfect it still doesn’t go through ?

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I know you have taken series of exams, test, assignment and more papers that were all done in a certain hall.

Few days back I went to my status and posted “what is the name you give to the place you did the exams?
The answers were restless and they were super amazing but also I learnt something…

What I wanna share to you is that in life everything is like an exam you are given a set of exams and boom your in a cage that is given to you a worker is given that work as an exam and the workplace is the hall that is given.  a driver is given an exams to drive without accident and reach the destination and the car is the hall where exams are done.

Now i know you have got this pictured but add this to your imagination its not the hall but its the exams that you have done. We have to learn that not all exams are the same but know that you can be in the same hall with your neighbor. And still the neighbor could be of no help, so in life you have to see that when you are in a situation you have to own it, it’s yours and there is no a Better way to fight it if you don’t take the initiative to fight it. Never complain when you don’t get help because each person has his ot her own exams to answer, challenge to react too.

The challenges you face in the exams  are the same as the ones that you fae in reality, the exams were designed to offer you a glimpse of what to expect in the real world. The fact you can panic and also fail to do anything in  the exam room is the same as what you can do in real life, when trouble hits and hits you bad its not time to panic nor stuck as a paralysed person you should collect your self, settle down and gather strength because its all that you gat the exams (challenges ).

With time involved everything else is temporary

David Benedict Zumbo

In life every situation you see is not permanent so lets not waste time thinking of a temporary situation but be of attention to it and learn what lesson it holds …

Bless up

Emitty…

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Process and Patience

Trust the process, Endure and be Patient for all good things takes time ….

An awkward version inside a person is a case study for the lesson today.

Have you ever been in a situation where you were once doing great, your studies flowing greatly and your stuffs going accordingly. In this point of your life you enjoyed every tiny bit of it, then booom I don’t know where the hell do this stressful situations come from and life becomes tough…

If your answer is yes and your in the same journey of asking yourself the questions as I, then welcome aboard for I am just finding answers as you..

Games, let me use this as a way to create a common ground for the answer that i find comfort on, when on stress and when life is bring its heepie jeepies to me…

games have levels and one of the brothers i had told me in every game one challenge unlocks the other and the next challenge pose a great diffculty more than the previous challenge

And also in playing the game I want to introduce stuff that are the main content of the article the process and patience .

process, let the process be the act of playing and unlocking the new challenge. while playing we have the spirit and anxiety of seeing the game till the end and we even can try do the same level or when we seem stuck at the point we dont give up and quit the game but we find alternative to move further to the next stage.

Patience is the discipline that we give ourself and the hope that we keep giving ourselves in the challenge that we have that we will past it to a new challenge and the challenge ahead is more rewarding more than previous.

Should I go on? I know you have figured out where am taking this bus now if not lets just take the serious thing that we call LIFE and make it or picture it as a game and in it we have to trust the process and have the patience and also bear in mind that after a challenge it will rise a mew challenge and another and another and so on, so in life challenges will keep on rising.

As challenges rise we find that we get into stress and more stress than before and life seems harder and harder as we go further but you know that shit is just as a game as we have the patience of trying something new and have the endurance of waiting till the process is done then lets be of the same spirit in real life, we should trust the process and enjoy our patience as we go through challenges but we should not forget that as we are done with this there will and I repeat always will be another challenge hard and patience testing waiting ahead of us and i believe the first key of winning the next challenge is we filling our hearts and mind with enthusiasm and just be ready for we dont know what the next challenge will be ?

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Fame Vs Changes

Fame Vs Changes

When at a young age did you ever wanted to be a leader or did you want to be a game-changer? Did you imagine a position that will make you in a manner of making changes to your society? Have you ever sat down and think that

Position nor fame can grant you to make a difference… but health and the will to make a difference can.

How many are leaders and they don’t make a difference??? and how are not leaders and still make a difference ?? The ability to make a change comes from inside to the outside not outside to go inside…

Have you ever been with an idea a little spark inside of you that you know straight up when you offer them out to the general public there will be an impact made and through your idea many more can be inspired ??

Now did you do it or hesitated ? if you did that’s great if you didn’t what happened ? why did you hesitate ?

Was the fact that you are not a leader and you are not influential, was it ??

Most of us we think that position or influence is the key to make changes or difference but they are accelerators to make changes but in reality, it’s not. You don’t need the power to make a change you need the right reasons.

One wise person was once asked what will he need to be the change and make the difference that he wants to see in the society and he did not respond with leadership, but he said ” I only pray for health” the man knows and its a time for us to know to that we need only health and the will to do and be the difference we want to see around us.

For the world is awaiting the manifestation of your inborn, unseen characters let them out don’t wait to be a successful person or a leader to do so.

Bless up

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Edit the manners.

“As how we do the editing to the pictures we take for ourselves and friends and family;in the like form let’s re-edit our manners to impress ourselves and friend and family…” Ellen_Laurel.

I can’t say I’m the perfect one but can’t say you’re either. Day by day we are all trying our best to fit into that which we think is right,or maybe what God really wants us to be. It is a tough fight because we have the freedom and the choice. We are all our own besties and our own enemies depending on how we let freedom and choice shape our lives.

It’s time we should fear freedom as much as we fear slavery!..oh! Rather let’s put it this way;let’s respect the freedom we have because if we ain’t careful enough it is going to be the worst form of slavery in the entire history.

Let’s exercise integrity in action as how we do the editing to the pictures we take for ourselves and family and friends;in the like form let’s re-edit our manners to impress ourselves, family and friends. For the better world that we all crave for.

Live in such a way that you aren’t chained up by your own freedom,exceeding the limitations of moral values and making mistakes that you can’t even afford to learn from just in the name of “no one tells you what to do”.

Bless up!

Sky_laurel.

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It will take time..!

“..I wanna pack up and go to a trip but it will take time and I can’t afford to let it be so…”

It is much like a custom to plan things out,like what I will do tommorow or even the next few hours. But what?! ..It all takes time .. whatever it is,it will take time. Sometimes we can’t afford to give things our time and that’s how we fail to achieve the most beautiful things life has to offer to us.

See!..The point is not in waiting but it is in patience!. For how long exactly you are gonna wait matters not;but how many things you are gonna lose while in the process is what matters.

You know! I’m not encouraging you to not give things your time because you will loose;but rather I want you to weigh up things you’re gonna lose while you wait against those you’re gonna win after the wait.

If the scales don’t patch up and the chances are the wait is worthy the while then don’t hesitate to give it your time even if it takes a lifetime!

It’s not like how you think like “what?? My whole life waiting ?!..that’s absurd…”

The thing is:Wait like a legend..make your every moment count..gain something from the wait..make it worth the while..create joyful memories productive wise so that in the end you won’t have regrets because it will take time….and you won’t have it back:EVER!

Bless up!

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When they asked about the stars….

It all started in a way she had never imagined. They wondered about her passion. How little! How young! How hopeless everything was! But in no way she would ever give up and let her passion fade..!

Some asked her “little one! What exactly do you see in the stars?”

A smile painted on her little face and her eyes sparkled up! “I see nothing but hope and the beauty of the darkness. I see the spirit and the opportunity ..I see chances and the stars whisper to me the ways to how I can get them pinned down. I see no boundaries and I see everything;from up there I see the life in the light because it takes only darkness to see it”

It’s time we learn to appreciate everything. The nothings and the things all blend up to add a taste to life. Take no haste to take a chance ,know only one limit;NONE!

They say if you’re afraid of the dark you will never see the stars.

Bless up!

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Opposite Sides…

Every one has a path to go through alone…

Have you ever gone to a place where you know the location partially and all the odd of getting lost are 1 to nil of getting there.

You hook yourself up with Google map and still you fail to get the right location. Ask for directions and many ways to get there and yet fail.

In this state is where you can try going any way that your guts tells you to go. Go left you go left, Go right you go left without hesitation or with lesser hesitation and if you get lost you go back to the junction you made the wrong turn and go opposite…

Now that’s a very vivid illustration that brings us to the following questions…

We make friends and the friends made are very great of an influence to our decision.

I know you know where am going with this. why don’t we follow our guts and just go the opposite way even if it doesn’t add up. why should follow somebody else’s direction ?

How many times have you got lost in your way, its much better to get lost in your way rather than getting lost in someone else way..

Our guts never gets us lost. follow your path.. Everyone has that one path you should go through alone.
Never allow anyone to chose your path…

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